Men's HIV Health UK - Thomas on HIV and What It Means to Be a Man

I'm fear of potentially telling people that you're not the person in certain ways that they thought you with or you live with something that they didn't know about, and you've lied to them to try and protect them.

The realization of the rejection I could have got from the public and the fear that I had built up for me something now puts the New Zealand hacker into a category that doesn't even come close to fear strength doesn't mean this strength means to be somebody who's courageous in standing up for what they believe in another thing about strength is you only know strong you are.

When first of all you know how weak you are shame is a funny thing because shame like fear is something that you create yourself shame has come from me living my whole life hiding really who I was. Then shame has come from not being able to be open about living with a virus.

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Living with HIV that has no repercussions does not affect anybody else, yet for some reason, society told me that I need to live in shame with it. I shouldn't get shader when you don't tell people exactly who you are, you end up lying, and then through the lion, you live in shame. Hence, it's a so this is the all-consuming thing that I feel like I've lived with for the majority of my life honesty is everything to me. It's an acceptance of who you are; so many of us so often will go through life-changing characters trying to please other people, and I saw emotionally draining so for me.

It's a value now; whether we like it or not, we all need to stick to it because I would rather someone dislike me for being honest than like me for being false. 

The only way you can ever be a hero is to know or learn how to be a hero. I wasn't born with the right to be called a hero. I've learned how to do that, and the only way of learning that desire is being brought up by two people who in my eyes are heroes, and that's my mother of our I'm blessed with in my life to have a family to have a husband that my stepdaughter that I love, and that means that I will do everything in my power to protect them because they all consume me. I wake up every day knowing now whatever happens in my life, I have a love of great people, and then anything else that comes on top is a bonus. Still, love is always something to me that's at the forefront of my mind. Every single day too often, people think of bravery.

They think of sheer strength. They think of serious courage. Still, the reality of bravery is when people can be weak able to talk about things that they struggle with, real bravery comes in understanding your vulnerabilities.

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