kids misbehave reasons

children misbehave when thy are

Hungry

Tired

Upset

Ignored

Hungry: its not only related to pure and simple hunger, sometimes the childrens body requires special food and so the child can be irritable or the chid is getting too much of a particular food it could be salt or sugar and hence behaves or  rather misbehaves to draw attention to his need. children are also inattentive when they are thirsty.

Tired: Tired after coming from school and need to just sit for 5 minutes but we force them to change uniform, eat and go down to play.

they can be tired physically or tired of concentrating, like on doing many work or activities in school.

tired can also be of being always told what to do, no choice, no freedom etc.

and these kind of tiredness can lead children to be irritable, angry and also make them scream and bite.

Upset: upset can be because i did not get what i want.

Upset can be an upset stomach. 

upset can be feeling of fright, fear and separation anxiety.

upset can be a lot of reasons and upset generally makes me throw a tantrum or wail and cry or i beat you, the adult because  i am so frustrated that  you can not see and recognize my need.

Ignored: a new baby can make children feel ignored.

a new guest in the house can make them feel ignored

ignored can be that i wanted to chatter and talk all the way to the market and school and you kept talking to others

ignored can be that i wanted some company while i did my homework and you were busy on the phone.

and when child feel ignored he will do all for getting you to pay attention to child.

when nothing else works child do negative things that get you to scold him or shout at him because that too is attention. 

this means the child feel loved enough to know how to express his need. children need to be taught ways of expressing their feelings and how to deal with them.