"I don't want to be a cougar, I want to be a MILF

"I don't want to be a cougar, I want to be a MILF, the 43 year old supermodel says. hate that word cougar and what it represents. MILF is a word I absolutely love. I like that tag because I think there is a worry for all models that the moment you have kids the perception of you is going to change."

"Age can be daunting, but you can't stop it. I know 20 year old guys don't look at me anymore. I don't feel it like I used to. I remember walking down streets in New York at the height of my modeling career, my hair up, and all the construction guys would go crazy. It's different now."

Cindy and her husband Rande Gerber are parents to son Presley, 10, and daughter Kaia, 8.

What your take on Cindy thoughts on aging?

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I think seeking attention from men (especially 20 year olds) other than your husband sends the wrong message. I mean, you can try to look attractive and nice without trying to entice men to lust after you. If you are single, I guess that is different, but Cindy is married. I am also married, and there are lots of sexy things I do at home to get my husband riled up. And I always make sure I look presentable when I am in public, but I honestly don care if other men look at me or not. I have my man and we love each other very much.

If Cindy can deal with tons of men not lusting after her anymore, she is going to have a rough life. I mean, she could easily live to the age of 90 and does she think she is going to get MORE attractive as she approaches that age?? I think not! So if she wants to spend the next 50 years mourning her lost youth, then so be it. 20 year olds SHOULD be looking at 20 year olds. I am 36 with 3 kids and I KNOW I considered a MILF,(5 125 lbs thank you very much) but even if I wasn it would be OK. NOBODY her age turns heads all the time, but she expects it to be different for her? WHY? All that matters is what your Hubby thinks. If she needs attention from other men, what does that say about her integrity? Does she want to teach her daughter that other mens opinions mean more than her own father Besides if you have good self esteem, you don need ANYONE else to tell you you hot. You should already think of yourself that way, no matter what size you are.

This is funny, I 21 and have been called MILF many many times, but I just laugh it off. I think there a lot more substance to the quality of the attention you receive rather than the quantity, or at least there should be. I feel gross and dirty when old perverted men are whistling and staring at me up and down. I LOVE it when my fiancee calls me gorgeous or kisses every inch of me thanking me for how beautiful I am lol or when he just randomly grabs me and wraps his arms around me just to kiss me I don need thousands of random guys to compliment me for me to feel just as beautiful as I always have and always will! I know I drop dead gorgeous, but I not going to flaunt it for every guy to see (those same guys are staring at every other woman, they have nothing better to do), that for my one and only, and I know he really appreciates that, it makes him feel much more secure in our relationship that he gets to see and touch what every other guy wants to. Maybe Cindy husband needs to show her how he sees her instead of assuming she already knows she gorgeous since she a supermodel. I can stand it when people assume you shouldn be complimented if you pretty because you already know you are. Or maybe Cindy relied too much on her beauty as she has grown up and now doesn know what to do with herself because every man in the world isn crawling on the ground after her. I hope she realizes that she is just giving complete strangers power over how she feels about herself. Who knows, but she IS beautiful, and yes I would much rather be a MILF than a cougar.

I can say I disagree with her being pregnat has been hard because my body is being taken over by another person so to speak. I wouldn change it for anything and I very excited about her and love that I am providing her with nutrition and home while she is in my womb. I can wait to have my body back in the next year and get back to feeling not huge all the time. So I don see wanting to be a MILF as a bad thing. If you take good care of yourself and other people notice why is that such a terrible thing ?

I think she just experiencing aging and the changes that come with it. We are all going to have to go through the same thing and whether we mourn the gradual decline of our physical beauty or of our health or our mental acuity, we are all going to have to make adjustments in the way we think about ourselves.

I not offended by the term or the language but that personal. I find it kind of funny actually and my husband likes thinking that other men admire me so I don have a problem with it. It doesn have to refer to only younger men and it doesn have to be taken literally it just means you attractive and who wouldn want that?

I am pretty sure that I don want men who are not my husband objectifying me, or my daughters for that matter. Yes, it ok to look good and to feel good about yourself, but to want to have men checking you out, that is dirty. I would rather look frumpy and at least know that there aren men undressing me with their eyes, than to be the hottest mom there is and have all the sexual attention. And I definitely want my daughters to have more self respect than that as well. No disrespect to anyone else, but why don we place the emphasis on who we are as moms, what we give to our families and to the world rather than how good we can look after having babies? It so sad. No wonder men expect us to be the wrong thing. We will never live up to it completely.

Roll out the so called politically correct brigade! Can people get off their offended horses over the term Cindy chose to use? Besides, it was probably the interviewer who used the comparison terms, anyway.

I totally rather be a MILF, thanks. Most twentysomethings look like babies to me, so definitely NO cougar here. Blech.

And since when is it for men and women to admire each other? Gaaaah, aren we past that type of Puritanical prudishness YET?? I half surprised Mom2girls didn advocate that we all wear burquas. That would definitely get all that horrible dirty nasty looking at out of the way, wouldn it?

Why does a woman have to be JUST one thing or another? Before I had my baby, I was confident in myself professionally, personally and sexually. I still am. I take care of my appearance because I take pride in myself.

If people admire me, so be it. I don particularly care, but I be lying if I said it not flattering to be the recipient of admiration from men OR women. While I never cared for boorish expressions of that admiration (read: wolf whistles from construction workers), getting a compliment from a female co worker on your hair or outfit or an admiring smile from a man is a pleasant experience for anyone. Why deny ourselves that pleasure?

While I have no interest in any man other than my husband, I see no reason why I should suddenly lose all self respect and jumpman23 allow every aspect of myself other than motherhood to diminish.

And as for the other comments How many of the comments are cover for envy?

Personally, MILF is kind of derogatory to me because a man will F a woman whether she is attractive or not. I guess what I saying that construction workers going crazy over me as I walk by does not give me as much satisfaction as a nice looking, successful gentelman smiling at me from across the room. Construction workers make a fuss just to do it, whereas someone actually taking the time to smile and make eye contact is doing it because they are genuinely interested. I think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and just because one man says a woman is a MILF doesn mean that all mean see her the same way. Like any girl, I love attention too it just depends who it is coming from.

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