How to Tell If She's Into You

There have only been three women in my life who I have thought of night after night. One was when I was a young ten-year-old boy, the second was during high school, and the third? I’m currently going through one right now. I’m left questioning if she shares the same feelings I have for her.

Moments like this in a man's life is challenging. You find a girl you like. You enjoy her company, your conversations with her, and her imperfections. You stay up night and day asking yourself if she reciprocates the feeling.

She loves me. She loves me not. You want a straight answer, but you don't want to ruin the friendship you currently have. Here’s how you can tell, without asking, if she’s into you.

Body Language

Every woman’s body language will be different. You have to take into account who they are and their personality. Sometimes you can mistake their friendliness for flirting. Context is always key.

For example, the woman I’m currently questioning whether she shares the same feelings for me, or not, is a naturally friendly, outgoing person. Her personality is very easy to fall in love with. As a photographer, it's part of her job to make sure her clients are at ease, relaxed, and comfortable during photo shoots.

So, if the woman you’re into shares the same traits, what can you do to know if she likes you?

Pay close attention to how she acts and communicates with you and other people. Think of the times you shared and compare them to how she acted with others. She might be a very friendly individual, but I promise you there will always be minor cues that differ if you pay attention.

She might hold her gaze with you much longer than with anyone else or talk to you about certain topics she doesn’t bring up with others. Perhaps you catch her gazing at you as you stare off into your “little world.”

Pave Your Own Road

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You may pay attention and notice certain differences in her body language, but you’re still uncertain whether or not she likes you back. Well, might I ask a question, fellas?

Is there some unexplainable factor that draws you to her? Can you see a future with her that brings out the best in both of you? Yes?

Then endure. With patience, persistence, and consideration, whether she shares the same feelings for you or not… in time you will win her over.

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