How the cheater got cheated in love?

At times in our life, we are faced with a crisis so profound that we tend to think: does love really exist? Recently my husband cheated on me, and I was thrown back into a profound contemplation on love. What should love mean for a married person? Because love has always been defined in connection with youth where to love leads to a crucial battle between the lovers and the society. The lovers either win over the society or die to achieve eternal union in the legendary tales. But that is not what exactly happens at the basic level.

I, therefore pushed my inquiry a little further and considered what can love to mean for a married person? Can a person be allowed to keep cultivating love not just for their partner but also for others whom they might like? How much freedom can love grant to the unregulated and unethical of the human feelings? Are limits to love important? Can we love apart from just showing lust? I kept thinking for days partly in despair over my own condition and partly to seek an answer for my broken heart. Finally, I could see a clear line of thought after days of contemplation.

Often when one is abused of emotional feelings, one tend to ignore any serious engagement with others on an emotional level. It is not only because one has lost the faith in people in general but also something inside them has broken apart. Though all people can't be same and we may find persons with extremely kind hearts and caring nature, but the real task lies in restoring the internal breakdown of things. It's not just for once that you are broken, this is the process that reproduces itself every time you are on a prospect of love. Every time we tend to love things seem to fall apart inside us and we start to lose our stability to produce concrete emotions.

Has he cheated on me?

When somebody cheats on you, he doesn't only break you once but triggers an unending crumbling of your emotions and feelings. To overcome such an apocalyptic chain of events a purest of the pure form of love and dedication is required. It's very much a healing of heart which are constantly bleeding away the life. Though it's very easy to cheat someone by fulfilling one’s desires but to become once savior is indeed a worthy experience. Thousands and millions of people are cheated on every single day, this way world will witness the total erasure of love from the face of the earth. If they all start crumbling inside which actually happens, and is evident in the way our relationships are becoming extremely fragile, what can possibly hold us together? When my husband cheated on me I thought how indifferent he is of his acts. he didn't even know that he contributed to the annihilation of love from the world and hence cheated himself of finding a true love.