Guaranteed Ways to Develop a Strong Personality
by Sean Williamson WriterHave you
been surrounded by people who excite everyone’s interest or concern? There is
something about them that makes people attracted to them. The way they manage
to sound confident while delivering a speech, maintain eye contact and have
powerful body language speak volumes of their strong personality. Now you may
be wondering how you can manage to do that. If you are a professional, willing
to have a similar personality, you first need to understand that it takes more
than a few business courses and educational degrees to develop a strong
personality and make your body language appealing to your audience. However, anyone
can develop such personality traits. All you have to do is focus on learning
the required skills to master the art of having a strong personality.
If you
genuinely want to acquire an attractive personality to convince your clients,
seniors, and boss for varying reasons, keep reading this article as we share
some helpful ways to help you excel in this art.
1 Be helpful
The first
step to developing a great personality is to be helpful. No, we are not talking
about pretending to be helpful; you genuinely have to be as helpful as you can
be. For instance, your colleague needs some help related to work. Try guiding
them and if you are not a pro at it, make sure you suggest them to reach out to
someone who can be of help to them. Unbelievably, you will get ultimate
satisfaction; it will reflect on your personality development and your face, as
well.
2 Work on being calm and confident
Do you have
the habit of biting your nails when your boss calls you or when you have to
give a presentation in front of your boss, clients, and colleagues? Well, this
habit is bound to make you look unconfident. Don’t ever give the audience the
slightest clue that you are having a feeling of uneasiness, nervousness, and
anxiety.
When you
have to pitch an idea in front of a large audience, just be sure you are calm
and confident. Your posture and body language are likely to eliminate the fear
of failure and boost your self-esteem instantly. If don’t know the possible
ways to have an impressive body language, try watching videos online to see how
it’s done. In order to do that, you need to be connected to kinetic
internet connection so you can watch similar videos
without any disruption or lag.
3 Stop doubting yourself
Are you a
genuine person and know exactly how to carry yourself but you are unable to
express yourself properly due to lack of confidence? Chances are, you dread if
you are speaking right or not. Also, you keep thinking about what people will
think of you or have this fear in you that people will make fun of you. Such
self-doubt questions will do nothing but hold you back in life. You really need
to stop doubting yourself in order to make yourself heard.
4 Learn from the mistakes you make and move on
If you
always make mistakes while learning something new, know that the most important
life lessons are learned from the mistakes you make. You are likely to make a
mistake that will hurt somebody in the long run; so be willing to apologize and
do something to make it up to them. When you accept your mistake and apologize,
you are likely to make a respectful corner among your colleagues. It is not
just enough to apologize to others, but you also have to forgive yourself for
the mistakes you made. Once you forgive yourself, you are bound to move on. By
making mistakes, you successfully develop the wisdom to make better decisions
in the days to come. If you keep learning and try to improve yourself, you are
much better than people who are never ready to accept their mistakes.
5 Consider socializing more
In this age
of networking, you need to ensure you socialize with people more often. When
you go for outings with your friends and/or colleagues, your knowledge about
different things will increase and you will gain enough confidence to travel on
your own. On top of that, by socializing with people, you learn when to speak
and how to interact confidently. When you hang out with people from different
walks of life, you learn when and how to say no to others.
6 Smile
Are you
about to pitch an idea? Just make sure you make your audience feel comfortable.
Now you may be wondering how? Well, just give a smile while discussing your
ideas; in turn, the audience will be relaxed and end up believing in your idea.
Also, when a question comes from your colleague, you should appreciate them for
asking it away and answer it with a smile on your face just to boost their
confidence.
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