How
much is too much? When it comes to self-gratifying, there is no easy answer to
the question. Men might wonder from time to time if they are indulging in solo
play a little too often, but since it’s tough to find hard-and-fast numbers on
such private matters, they really don’t have any baseline to go by. But one red
flag for a problem might be the persistence of a raw, red member – even when
proper manhood care is
practiced on a regular basis to prevent that very thing from happening!
How does a man know when self-gratifying
is too much?
Though there is no set guideline that tells a man he is indulging
in self-gratifying too often, there is definitely a way to look at the
situation that can help a guy decide if he needs to lay off the personal fun
for a while. Here are a few points to ponder:
- Does self-gratifying happen from time to time, but doesn’t
stop a guy from doing his day-to-day activities? For instance, if he is invited
out for dinner with friends, does he choose the dinner – or does he choose to
stay home and fondle? If a man chooses dinner with friends, it’s a sure bet he
has a healthy relationship with self-gratifying and isn’t letting the act
consume his every thought.
- Does a guy think about self-gratifying all the time? A man who
thinks about getting his next ‘fix’ even when he’s at work, out with his
buddies or on a date might want to examine just how often he’s getting off and
whether that time is cutting into other aspects of his life. Staying in for a
good solo play session now and then is fine. But staying in for a
self-gratifying session when it interferes with work, school and a social life
is a sign of impending trouble.
- Does a guy have trouble getting off with a partner? This is a
big red flag that should make a man truly reconsider how much self-gratifying
he’s doing. He runs the risk of self-pleasuring so much that his brain
eventually comes to recognize what he’s doing with his hand as the best, most
efficient way to achieve release, and that can make it difficult for him to
fully enjoy private time with a lovely new partner.
- Finally, is a man self-pleasuring so much that it is actually
causing physical harm? This might be rawness, redness, swelling, pain or other
issues concerning his manhood. And even when he does cause this harm, he goes
back for ‘one more round’ more than once, thus making the problem worse. If a
guy is suffering from a raw, red member but feels a compulsion to stroke it
even more, it’s safe to say he’s probably self-pleasuring too often.
What to do about it?
For most men, these points will lead them to conclude there is no
problem. And in that case, they will go along with their day-to-day lives,
making self-gratifying a fun part of their routine!
But for those who have just realized things have gotten out of
hand (so to speak), there are steps he can take to break free of the problem.
The first move a man should make it to visit his physician and explain what’s
happening. A good doctor will listen closely and help a man find the assistance
he needs.
In the meantime, it’s important to mitigate the damage as much as
possible. This can be achieved with a specially formulated male organ
health crème (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which
is clinically proven mild and safe for skin), especially one that contains
Shea butter and vitamin E for soothing, as well as L-carnitine for relief of
peripheral nerve damage that can result from rough handling.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips
on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy member.
John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and
is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.