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Finishing Too Soon: Why it Happens to Men and How to Stop It
by John Dugan OwnerFinishing too soon. Even the thought of this problem can make even
the hardiest male shudder. Most men may scoff and claim it never happens to
them, that their stamina is so great that they can go all night if necessary.
But in fact, it’s the rare man who has not at least once or twice released a
load of semen before he was ready to (or before his partner was ready for
it). And while there can be a connection between male organ health and
performance status, sometimes even men who take superb care of their equipment
can be a little quick on the trigger.
How many?
Just how common a problem is finishing too soon? There’s some
debate on this point.
For example, a study was conducted in the United States that found
about 75% of men came within two minutes of penetration about half of the time
they had intimate contact. On the other hand, a more recent British survey
found that only 10% of men claimed they sometimes had this issue. And other
surveys have come up with figures of 20% to 30% of men being affected.
Definitions
Why such wide variation? Were men in the 1940s simply less able to
control their release? Perhaps, but it more likely has to do with a variety of
things, including how the problem is defined, who is being asked, how the
questions are phrased and how honest the respondents are being.
So what does it mean to finish too soon in the bedroom? Even here
there is some disagreement. The Mayo Clinic considers it to mean consistently
finishing within one minute of starting. A 2006 study concluded that men with
this issue lasted, on average, 1.8 minutes. One 2005 study found that the
average man lasts 5.4 minutes, and so theoretically anything under that could
be considered too soon.
Practically, a man might be considered an early ender simply if he
came before his partner was satisfied. If the partner also finishes after 1
minute, does it really matter if the man does, too? But by that same token, a
man who can last for 30 or 40 minutes would be considered a quick shooter if
his partner takes longer to reach fulfillment.
Duration
So there’s confusion about what constitutes finishing too quickly;
however, most scientists agree that lasting between 3 and 7 minutes is pretty
typical for men. Guys who fall short of that mark may be considered too early.
Treatment
Many men are quick on the draw yet aren’t bothered by it. They
accept it, enjoy their time inside their partner and are fine with finding
other ways to please their partner once they have finished.
But some men desire more and so may seek treatment, which can be
an involved process. Sometimes a man learns to last longer simply through age
and experience. But there are a number of treatments (behavioral modification,
topical anesthetic applications, counseling, kegel exercises, deep breathing,
tantric exercises, oral medications, etc.) often employed to help a man last
longer. They work well for some men, perhaps not so well for others.
If a man finds that, despite his best efforts, he still does not
have the stamina he wishes he had when in an intimate situation, it’s best to
remember that the quality of the contact is of much more importance than the
duration. The man who is a tender, thoughtful lover is the true prize, whether
his stamina is great or modest.
A healthy manhood is also a bonus, and regular use of a top
shelf male organ health
creme (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is
clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can help a man achieve this.
The crème should include both L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former is an
amino acid that’s useful in the creation of nitric oxide, which in turns helps
keep the blood vessels open and receptive to the increased blood flow needed
for a happily functioning member. And L-carnitine is beneficial for the manhood
that has experienced rough handling and is feeling a diminishment of sensation
as a result. This neuroprotective ingredient helps restore lost sensation in
the member.
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