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Don't Allow Fear To Keep You From Starting Over After Divorce

by bryanwilliams divorcecoaching Consultant

Sometimes it is very hard to keep your motivation up when you are trying to start over. You have set your goal and have made yourself determined to get there. 

However, if you are not making progress you may need to take a step back and reassess your goals. Perhaps you have underestimated how long it will take to reach them or perhaps you have underestimated how much effort it will take. If this is the case, you should try and make some small adjustments.

Sometimes we need to make changes to our lives but we are scared. Let's look at a few ways fear can hold us back despite our best efforts:

Most of the time people fear the unknown, even when the unknown is a change that they want to make. This is because people are afraid of the unpredictable and unknown. This can be seen in the fact that people don’t like change and are afraid of it.

We must be willing to change, and be willing to change over and over again. It is a matter of commitment, something that is difficult to achieve.

It is a common fear that you will be judged for your work, which can lead to feelings of anxiety. However, it is possible to overcome this fear as long as you accept yourself and what you have achieved. 

This will mean working hard to make the changes you want to make. You will lose friends and you may be ridiculed by some, however, it is important that you are happy and proud of what you have achieved.

Mistakes are part of life. No one is perfect. Some people will always make mistakes while others will make fewer mistakes. In fact, some people will not make any mistakes at all.

The fear of success is a complex phenomenon. We all have insecurities about our abilities, our talents, our intelligence and our self-esteem. What we don't realize is that we are more likely to succeed if we do what we are good at, if we practice our skills often and if we are persistent.

Perfectionism is a psychological function that is learned. It's the tendency to evaluate things as being good or bad. When perfectionism is equated with success, the result is that one tends to focus on the result, which is success. 

This means that there is not much room for finer nuances in success. The result is that the person tends to focus on the result, which is success, and ignore the process.

If you feel as though you cannot go on, you are right. It is time to find your best self. This is the best way to live your life.



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