Change is scary. But do you know what’s scarier? Agreeing to live where you are!

Our life is too short to care about the small things. Things that do not matter anymore or the things that mattered at one point in our life should be ignored. Sticking to the past and not trying to move on is the worst thing we humans can do to ourselves. Indeed, every new beginning is scary, but what makes us think it is not worth it? New beginnings are a sign that endings can be beautiful.  Human life is a never-ending cycle between the future and the past. In this constant movement, we welcome new things every other day. So, why do we get scared when something destined to be with us comes to us?

Many celebrities, authors, and writers have discussed their lives openly just to get along with the viewers and tell them that everybody has to go through the ups and downs of life. Brian Bonar is one of those writers who have told people the importance of accepting the new beginnings in his book The United States of Success. Life does not get served on a plate; we have to go through a lot in order to achieve what we really desire. Change is not an option but an obligation! In his book, Brian has told his struggles, challenges, and his consistency in adopting constant changes in life.

After the constant challenges and toughness of life, there comes the point where a person either gives up or stands back stronger. The ones who embrace their obstacles and move along with them are the true heroes. Life is not easy on anyone. The harsh realities and endless trials often make people lose control. It is not easy to learn from the past, but it is important for growth. Brian was a person who learned from his mistakes, and he worked on himself. After four failed marriages, he did not stop, and he went for the 5^th one too. He knew that life is not meant to get stuck and stop where you are standing. And the success of Brian’s 5^th marriage proved that new beginnings could be beautiful.

Learning from mistakes is one thing, and accepting the outcome of those things is another. People often learn from their mistakes, but they just cannot process and live along with the trouble that their mistake causes. Either positive or negative, new beginnings can be beautiful and a sign of life outcomes. People who are scared to accept the new beginnings must know that whatever is written in the future is definitely better than what they have right now. To give us the best, our life takes us from the worst. Embracing the changes and accepting life is the best thing one can do. This way helps in maintaining the life we once desired to achieve.

Wrapping It Up

Everybody has their own problems and challenges that they do not often share. Sharing and telling others about your problems is okay, but keeping it to yourself is fine too. People like Brian Bonar are the motivators to many people who are struggling with their lives.