Dating tips for the elderly

Posted by Shashi Kant Patel
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Sep 5, 2011
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Image In reality, you should probably be giving me advice, due to your years of experience in life.
Age is obviously no barrier when it comes to relationships, infact these days more and more people are dating at older ages and all different ages. The difference in ages between individuals seems to not matter much these days either, which in some cases can really be a blessing in disguise.
Use your years of experience and knowledge to gain that special someone that can help you live out the rest of your days in harmony.
Make sure the person you are interested in has similar life goals and interests as yourself.

This will ensure that you stay interested in each other, hopefully forever.


The following are simple but very essential tips you could lean on in times when you find it hard to ask someone out for a date. For men, these tips are really a great help for you to invite that person that you have in mind.

• Know the right reason or reasons for asking a person out. When
you know your purpose, it would surely give you the ideas of how to
express it in a medium that you are most comfortable with.
• What if the person says no?
• Do not take the “no” so seriously and do not demand a reason for
the negative reply.
• Learn the beauty of grace in such times and just move on.
• In order to say the words you want to express, you might try to do
some practicing. This method helps in clarifying your thoughts to say
the words you need to tell the person you want to be with.
• Be sure that you have the most important details for the date in mind.
The person might say “yes” and you just do not know where to go
from there, that would be a real “turn off”. As much as possible, be
ready with ideas.
• Prepare yourself to answer the question whenever the person asks
you why you are asking her out. Just be honest, you do not have to

be a flatterer but you have to make sure that you make the person
feel good. This way you are showing how thoughtful you are.
• Never pressure a person to go out with you. This is not healthy and it
can cause negative reactions.
• Do not miss your date as this would leave a negative impression.
Bear in mind this is a small world and things will come and bite you
when you least expect it.
• There is no need to boost your confidence with alcohol, that is a no -
no. It may lead to disaster. You have to be naturally confident.

These are really useful tips and you have to take note of them, they would surely help you out in maximizing the time you spend with that special person.

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