Can Relationship be your support system?

Being involved in a relationship is never easy because you have to think about your partner too. Taking decisions only for yourself on selfish grounds is not what you do in a supportive relationship. Not all Relationships are toxic, but this toxic type of Relationships cannot be your support system. It is mandatory to think about your partner before taking decisions on any basis. When you are dating and are serious about your relationship, you should understand situations from both sides.

Looking towards positive side, Relationships can actually be your support system if you are lucky enough to get a supporting and understanding partner. It is important to share a real connection with someone instead of just hooking up every night, if you are looking for real emotional bonding.

Here are some points, which shows whether your relationship is your support system or not.

● You never feel discouraged.

Even after failing somewhere, loosing somewhere, you are not blamed and broken. You are always motivated, highly encouraged and never with low confidence. Also, the reason for this is your partner; then your relationship is definitely your support system. This type of partner's don't blame for loosing or failing instead they motivate to try again and win with flying colours. All a person gets is mental peace and relief in this type of Relationships.

● You are never away from your dreams.

There are Relationships that force you to compromise on your dreams and your goals in order to stay involved and absolutely committed towards your partner and relationship. On the other hand there are partners who try their best to make the partner work on their dreams and stick towards goals. If you are in the latter type of relationship; and you got a partner who never let toy get distracted from your dreams, who makes you work on your goals, than you are in a Relationship that is your support system too.

● You are always understood by your partner.

No matter what mistake you did, right or wrong; your partner should give you a chance to explain. Also, your partner should correct you without making you feel insulted. Than this is a supportive relationship. In this type of Relationship you are never ignored, your presence is never ignored, you always get attention; your every view is respected and equally heard. Your partner will never permit anyone to criticise you. Then, this is the type of relationship that works as a support system.

● You are trained to be Independent.

Knowingly or unknowingly you are always exposed to become independent. You are allowed to take decisions by your own for yourself or for your partner, and you have complete trust of your partner. When you know that your partner will never let you fight against anything alone, and will never leave your side no matter what. When you have your partner by your side not just physically but mentally too and you don't let your partner's trust down. When you are trained to make and take decisions for both of you, then you are in a healthy relationship.

Conclusion.

Relationships are never about restricting each other towards life; goals or dreams but they are always about growing strong together with each others support. It isn't easy to get a supportive relationship but it's not even difficult. All you need to do is instead of falling to fake glitters fall for true soul, vibe and connection. This type of relationship and a partner like this will never let you down and this can definitely be your support system.