Better Sensual Activity through Game Playing
Good sensual activity is great, but is “good enough” sensual
activity really good enough? Often people who have been sensually involved with
each other for a long period of time may find that their sensual lives fall
into a little bit of a rut – it’s fine, but it could be better sensual
activity. And the same can be true for some couples who are just starting out;
there may be a little something missing, perhaps because they feel a little shy
or unsure of themselves. Assuming male organ health or another problem is not
an issue, there’s no reason that such couples shouldn’t be enjoying even better
sensual activity – and one way to help achieve that goal could be to
incorporate sensual games into bedtime activities.
Sensual games are a fun way to add a little spice back into
sensual play or to help “break the ice” among those still getting to know each
other. There are dozens of games out there that a couple can use in search of
better sensual activity. Here are a few that they can consider to get
themselves started:
- Strip anything. Almost everyone knows about strip poker, in which people
play cards but instead of betting with money, they bet with pieces of clothing.
But the fact is that there are numerous other games that can incorporate
stripping. For example, get a pair of dice and have each person pick a number –
say, five for him, eight for her. Roll the dice. Every time a five comes up, he
takes off a piece of clothing and the same for her when eight is rolled. Or to
make it more fun, let her take off his piece of clothing when five is rolled
and he take off hers when eight is rolled.
- Distracted wooden tower. Take one of those stackable wooden towers and put it
together. As with normal play, the trick is to remove pieces of the tower
without it falling down. The challenge in this version is that as the player is
trying to remove the piece, their partner is rubbing and massaging their
sensual organs to distract them.
- Male organ ring toss. The man picks out five sensual positions and assigns each
one a number, without letting the partner know what they are. He then stands
with a firmly tumescent member while the partner tosses five plastic hoops,
trying to get them to land on his manhood. If, say, three end up around the
member, they then have sensual activity using whatever position was assigned
the number three.
- Release race. The partners self-stimulate each other, trying to make the
other reach sensual release first. Vibrating objects and other sensual toys may
be used. Determine an appropriate prize for whoever wins – whether it’s
sensual, like getting to determine what sensual position to use the next time
they have sensual activity or practical, like taking out the garbage.
- Sensual slips. Each partner takes several slips of paper and writes on each
one of them something sensual he wants the other to do, e.g. “Tie me up with
stockings” or “Service me orally at the breakfast table” or “Self-pleasure in
front of me.” Each partner draws a slip and has to follow the instructions. (If
they are unwilling or unable to, they can pass – but they should talk about why
they are reluctant to do it.)
Sensual games are one route to better sensual activity – but the
best route involves being willing and able to communicate lovingly and openly
(if tactfully) with a partner.
Sensual games will more likely lead to better sensual activity for
a guy if his member is in top shape, so it behooves him to utilize a top
notch male organ health creme (health
professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe
for skin) regularly. The top cremes will include both
L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former is an amino acid which plays a role in
keeping male organ blood vessels open for increased blood flow. The latter is
neuroprotective, helping ensure proper manhood sensitivity when a member is
overused or roughly handled.
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