A Bunch of Things No One Tells You about Getting Engaged

As soon as the wedding proposal happens, you are begin to shower with blessings and best wishes for this lifetime event. Then the list of work, planning and lots of responsibilities occurs. A wedding event is a big day and comprises huge planning.  Planning list includes several things and your friends & family have begin to ask about the wedding date, invitation card’s design, color palette or wedding theme, wedding dress, and more. Someone may ask about wearing white or after wearing engagement ring on your finger, people expect you to know every single wedding detail.  But there are still many wedding details, no one warns you about many things and here’s the list of things you should know about getting engaged.

Chances are, you wouldn’t be ready

Try to come out from the fantasy world and the proposal you dreamed up because that most likely isn’t how it will go down. And it’s perfectly fine. It may happen that you’ll have a zit on your chin or your hair will b e a mess or you’ll be wearing any comfortable clothes like pajamas.

It’s ok to choose ring together

There’s a misconception that all good proposals demands a surprise factor but truthfully nothing’s wrong with a truthful communication. Going and choosing a ring together is a great idea. It’s not only makes sense since you can ensure that it fits your finger and budget both. This little conversation of buying rings together can be a part of your engagement story.  

Prepare for shower of unsolicited advices

Everyone wants to share their experiences about wedding planning either they are good bad or ugly. Such things includes word like should or shouldn’t. For example, you should not invite kids to your wedding or you should book a rehearsal dinner definitely etc.  if you are agree or not thank them & be on your way.

View TV & movies differently

You can get ideas from TV & movies can make a unique change either by walking down the aisle or brightening the whole venue with candles. So make the people crazy with such different ideas and now you get it totally.  

Share feelings with your spouse and don’t make anything formal. Read the above mentioned guidelines which no one tells you about.