5 Unwritten Rules for Successful Dating

by Alex Smith Content Writer

For about 20 years, with a substantial increase during the Covid-19 pandemic, dating sites have become an increasingly present reality for those looking for a partner. Even on the internet, however, as in life, you have to pay attention to some rules of conquest.

By joining this site and modern dating services you should remember these 5 "unwritten rules" that will help you find your soul mate.

• Stop looking for "the right person"

It may seem trivial but it is so true ... as long as we remain anchored to the idea of ​​having to find "the right person" this hardly happens! Concepts such as that of a soul mate arise from stereotypes present in Disney cartoons, which girls of different generations have always watched, and in love films that have influenced both men and women. The charming prince and the macho conqueror are two unreal examples: we are men and women with strengths and weaknesses and we are driven by impulses that are often more common than we think; we cannot escape from nature.

The "right person" is none other than the one with whom we make a commitment and who we allow to make commitments with us.

• Create a compelling profile on dating sites - use photos to make a good impression

If you're looking for love on a dating site, make sure you create a profile that really tells about you, as completely as possible.

In particular, always put a picture of yourself. And let it be true! According to some dating site statistics, the percentage of users without profile photos who have met a soul mate is very low. The average user who encounters such a profile instinctively thinks: "He is married", "He joined this site to snoop", "He is not serious", "This person must be physically deformed if he is so ashamed! ".

Therefore, if you are looking for a partner, arm yourself with courage and post your photos!

On the contrary, experts suggest not to be stingy and not to upload a single photo. The ideal is that your profile is completed with 2-3 images that portray you, possibly in a close-up way.

• Start an online conversation

On the other hand, while the internet offers a protective barrier to our shyness, the approach shouldn't be that different. Start with short, simple messages. Avoid long pulls, flowing messages that usually don't work. Think about what you would do if you had that person physically in front of you and chat accordingly.

• Don't expect too much from your first date

The first date is for "sniffing" each other. It is the real testbed for relationships that, on paper, could be beautiful, but that in the absence of chemistry will never leave. We advise you not to chat on dating sites for too long. Once you have established contact with the person you are interested in, propose a close meeting. This will, in fact, be decisive. Often those who chat for months are unable to really realize relationships, precisely because they are loaded with unrealistic expectations about who is on the other side.

The first date can go wrong without turning into tragedy: armed with self-irony and thinking that it is also a game!

• Listen to your instincts

This always applies to everyone. Listening to your instincts means, if necessary, not giving up on all the advice received and charting your own personal route.

Those who are receptive to their inner needs are hardly wrong. Sometimes the person you meet is not what you expected - it's better.

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Created on Dec 29th 2021 02:26. Viewed 338 times.

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