Is Life Unfair ?
Why life is unfair ?
Beacuse you believe that it is unfair.
Do you know what depression really is ?
Depression is a feeling that results from giving up when dealing with an external stressful event by becoming indifferent to it.
Lets suppose you had a work related problem that you were unable to solve for months if you didn't respond to it or if you felt helpless for a prolonged period of time then sooner or later the stress will turn into depression.
Is your mind's way of saying " I give up " or " This problem is too big for me to handle , I lost hope " But what does this has to do with fairness or unfairness of life ?
Is life really unfair ?
it is quite humiliating for your subconscious mind to accept the fact that you weren't competent enough to deal with your problems that is why it doesn't declare defeat directly but instead it searches for any possible excuse to throw the blame on.
Life is really unfair if you tried once and failed then surely you will find that life is unfair.
Life wasn't designed for those who try once then give up but instead it's more suited for persistent people who keep trying untill they get what they want.
Ask any successful person is life fair ? He will tell you in the begining it wasn't but he kept trying untill it became fair.
Life will never be fair with those who don't fight untill becomes fair as you are the one who is responsible for creating fairness.
Unless you keep trying untill you create fairness, life will always be unfair to you.
Source : 2knowmyself.com
Beacuse you believe that it is unfair.
Do you know what depression really is ?
Depression is a feeling that results from giving up when dealing with an external stressful event by becoming indifferent to it.
Lets suppose you had a work related problem that you were unable to solve for months if you didn't respond to it or if you felt helpless for a prolonged period of time then sooner or later the stress will turn into depression.
Is your mind's way of saying " I give up " or " This problem is too big for me to handle , I lost hope " But what does this has to do with fairness or unfairness of life ?
Is life really unfair ?
it is quite humiliating for your subconscious mind to accept the fact that you weren't competent enough to deal with your problems that is why it doesn't declare defeat directly but instead it searches for any possible excuse to throw the blame on.
Life is really unfair if you tried once and failed then surely you will find that life is unfair.
Life wasn't designed for those who try once then give up but instead it's more suited for persistent people who keep trying untill they get what they want.
Ask any successful person is life fair ? He will tell you in the begining it wasn't but he kept trying untill it became fair.
Life will never be fair with those who don't fight untill becomes fair as you are the one who is responsible for creating fairness.
Unless you keep trying untill you create fairness, life will always be unfair to you.
Source : 2knowmyself.com
Comments (6)
Rosetta slmn
7
content writer
thanks Jan
and I am happy that you find life fair .
Jan aka Jaz Green
7
Thanks for sharing Rosetta; I find that 'stress' is the conflict between the flesh and spirituality. It only makes sense to those who have a spiritual connection. The flesh is only a temporary house for the 'spirit'.... to answer the title question: No, life is NOT unfair.
Rosetta slmn
7
content writer
Thanks Cindy and I agree completely with you life is boring without obstacles to get over and that what make us feel successful
Cindy Bolley
16
HHCTB?
No one said it would be easy.
I think it would be very boring if it were.
Life is an adventure.. EXPLORE IT!!.
We could start a whole thread with saying about this subject.
My favorite of course is... HHCTB?
Gotta love your posts!! Keep em up.
Cindy
Rosetta slmn
7
content writer
Wa alykom alsalam ARI
Thanks for reading the blog and for your comment
and I will post about stress management soon Insha' ALLAH
Happy Ramadan for you :-)
ARI WIBOWO
6
Teacher
Saluut Rosetta!!, Hopefully you can melt Posts minds of people who hold the power of stress but authoryty (), Thank you .. Wassallaamu A'laikumm