Soulmate Relationship. My experience.

by Lynda Rapana What doesn't kill you makes you stronger I never knew he was my soulmate till many years later. We both learned alot from eachother and the incredible
journey of this story ignites a passion so deep. We could speak entirely without words. Rather, we spoke from our heart, our soul, our minds.
Meeting
I met my soulmate in 1998. At the time, I had met him through my bestfriend. He was in a relationship at the time too so I didn't really know him well. It was all about knowing of him. I met him at a social gathering with friends and I didn't find out til later, and through the years he'd had his eye on me. On occasion I'd catch him glimpsing my way. But I never took anything serious, after all, I was with my current partner. I also found out later. 'Love is blind."
I never acknowledged the word "Soulmate," much for it never really meant alot to me. Although I'd heard of it often enough. Throughout the years I'd known of my soulmate, on two occasions the word began to mean something to me. You see, I recalled having a dream about him. Once again I did not know him well at all. In this dream, I felt a closeness to him, a very strong bond it felt so real. I awoke, and thought nothing of it.
However, the second time I had a similar dream, which came another two years later. It was through this second dream, I became curious about it. So I looked up the meaning of soulmates. I recieved a psychic reading and was surprised to find out he was "the one."
So I began to notice him a bit more and realized I was seeing another side of him. I became interested in him and I had told my best friend about it. For some reason she was intrigued and about a year later she asked him if he was interested in me. His immediate reply was "Yes." Now I'd never known a guy to be so keen on me, so when she told me his answer, I kind of freaked out! My heart did flip flops.
From that word, we started to form a bond. Although, I was with my current partner and everything had to be discrete. Eventually, my partner found out over a few years and refused to let me go. Which turned into something bigger and strenuous.
In reading up about soulmates, I learned that, you may meet your soulmate and both, or either one of you would still be in a relationship. What this means is, there is still a lesson to be learned before you can come together as a whole. Which is where I am now.
Communication
Now, my soulmate and I communicated in a way we could understand eachother. You see, it would almost look as though we were cheating by way of our communication. However, although we were like secret lovers, we were more like friends. Our friendship grew with our love for eachother. He was like a duplicate of me and I of him. The way we communicated with our friends and family was all the same.
One of us would make conversation to a person or people at one stage. And without even knowing the other one would make the same comments not long after. The event was so amazing. Even as we spoke we would always finish eachother's sentences or say something like "yes she/he's got a hat," and we would be only joking around but it would ring true. The communication we have is so unreal. We can almost read eachother's minds.
Friendship
Our friendship began the moment he said "Yes." We began communicating by way of seeing eachother by third party. We would take one look at eachother and we knew what the other was saying, thinking, doing. At times we would take action in answers to questions we had for eachother. It was like we spoke in a third person fashion. And through these actions we discovered eachother's needs, wants, and desires. Realistically, he wanted to offer me his world. He wanted to give me life I probably would have never had.
I turned his life upside down. But he was so willing to take everything to the next level. My relationship with my partner would never allow us such closenes. But I could almost dramatize what he wanted from me and I from him. I loved him and wanted to be with him, but it was through the strength of our souls we knew our love could wait.
Love
Loving my soulmate has been the most incredible experience. Usually, being in love with someone but the partner not responding to your needs can sometimes hurt. But in a soulmate relationship, even though you are miles apart, what you feel for eachother stays strong. You are able to distance yourself from eachother and allow eachother space. In the end, when you come together again the meeting is so much stronger. You almost feel giddy seeing eachother again.

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