Enjoy Of Life, While On Crisis

No longer entirely dependent on their parents but not yet stable in life, they go in a lot of directions, and change jobs a lot, change love partners. I believe this transition period can be positive, with its opportunities for growth and adventure. But for some people, the turmoil brings worry, fears of failure or of being trapped by responsibilities, or depression. ?My job made me unhappy because I do not know what I really wanted out of my career. Then in future or may be this year, the bad economy made me decision for me, or was laid off.?

 

May be I want a career totally out of the ordinary nature as I have been, say like being a flight attendant, I wrote on my diary blog, social networking wall, Life in Pink. I would love to travel and meet new people, but to be honest, I just do not know. People like this situation as I am was some of them moving back their old hometown to corps a big blow to the self-esteem. Even those with job sometime feel like struck doing something they do not enjoy because they fear they have no other positions, or even salary and others fringe benefit cut down.

 

Considering of how or possibilities that they want to go back to school for a master?s or MBA, but they are not doing it because they are already in deep debt. Kids are changing their dreams. They are going for things more pragmatic in terms of earning a living and getting a job later. Kids are now thinking about what is the safe thing to do to get a pay cheque. But the anxiety over the future and the disappointment in not landing passion-fulfilling jobs make the quarter life depression worse. At the same time, technology is breeding a generation of online sulkers.

 

No longer limited to sharing their woes at the family dinner table or while hanging out with friends, quarter-lifers have countless opportunities to brood in blogs and on Twitter and Facebook or others social networking. Depending on your character and moral outlook, you will seek like-minded people are all over the Internet, someone inclined to be depressed can find people who corroborate. It also leads to focusing on a lot of drama and nonsense.

 

Instead of stewing in their misery, quarter-lifers should focus on what they can change. Although it is time of depression, it is also a time of being creative in getting yourself to do something out of your comfort zone. Embrace the challenge. Someone losing their job turned out to be the push their needed. Blessed with more time to work on their blog created many interesting contents, and realized their real passion lay in writing. Many of quarter-lifer crisis do say ?Now I hope to living from it. Even if it is a hard path, and it will not be easy, but I know what I want to do now, and I have the supportive base to get me there.?

 

Remember: You are never going to be certain that you have chosen the right path, you will always have doubts, but you learn to deal with those doubts. Learning to cope with that is when the crisis ends.