Good Grief, What Next? In search of TRUTH
WARNING - THE FOLLOWING BLOG IS INTENDED ONLY FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE ABILITY TO LOOK AT THINGS OPENLY, HONESTLY AND OBJECTIVELY! IF YOU DO NOT LOVE TRUTH AND UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF TAKING THE GOOD WITH THE BAD DO US BOTH A FAVOUR AND NAVIGATE AWAY FROM THIS PAGE IMMEDIATELY!
In case you couldn't tell allready this little piece has been inspired by anger. Instead of freaking out and busting some heads like I really want to I have decided to instead focus that energy into this here blog. You see I LOVE APSense, I really do. Now it isn't so much the network itself or the fancy tools(even though they are pretty awesome and off the hook!), but what it is that I really love is YOU THE PEOPLE! Somehow several people who have integrity ended up members here(and I imagine the key people in management are such folks too even though I can't say for sure because I don't personally know any of them!)
We could have all the best tools and most amazing technilogical crap you could imagine.
It wouldn't mean a damn thing and it would be good for nothing without people
Real people
Compassionate human beings, understanding and unbiased personallities, people who realize they don't know everything. Because none of us do! And anyone who would claim to is nothing but a lair and a fool, period.
Now there are many here who seem not to approve of the "dramatics" that arise from time to time. They seem to think "issues" shouldn't be discussed.
Well what the _uck is that?
WRONG, Plain and simple.
If we try to ignore the wrong doings of the few who have selfish interests NOTHING will ever be solved.
"If we just swept the dirt under the carpet
It would still be dirt under the carpet
and as we kept adding it
eventually we'd just have one big friggin pile of dirt"
and then what?
No Openess
No respect
No trust
No Regard for others as unique individuals
NO INTEGRITY
And one dirty disgrace of a business social network!
No Thanks!!!!!!
P.S. I am not a child. I do not need to be treated like one nor to I need to be told like one. If you have any issues with me or any of my material tell me to my face and we'll discuss it until we come to terms that are acceptable to us, it is called comprimise and we are all capable of it just as we all have the right to be here.
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Comments (60)
Eric Smith7
Online Professional
Been without a DSL connection since sunday night... But not interested in this topic anymore... Theres obviously a language Barrier between Australian & English ;o)
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Jenny,
Thanks for your brilliant words and let me tell you, YOU ARE APPRECIATED SO MUCH!!
JUST AS SO MANY ARE HERE!!! Anyways I think Jenn said enough for me in response and then some, thanks Sis!
Now I'm off to take care of other matters, good grief what next? LOL
Jennifer Underwood11
Promoter
Jenny,
Thank you for your comment, and I know Garnet appreciates it tons!
I hope and pray that your comment is not misconstrued, because again that will only show the ignorance that sometimes happens.
Bj, and Lynn know that I have no personal problem with them...heck I don't have a 'problem' with anyone. But when I don't agree with some thing, I am going to say my feelings about it..no matter what! But that doesn't mean I am out to cause problems, argue, or get a fire started. I am just sayin
Jenny Stewart11
I have just re read my post - If anyone takes it to be a dig at BJ and Lynn - they have a nasty paranoid mind.
Jenny Stewart11
Hello Garnet,
I'm finally back from the Super christmas Arts & Crafts Fair and have started to go through what I have been missing (apart from the Frui CakeCake Blog of course - Long Love Fruit Cake )
I have found this!! ii am so sad - you are such a lovely straight person and you have expressed beautifully what a lot of people feel, but BETTER. of course you make mistakes - but you have the guts to admit them - which isnt always true of people.
Garnet honey - You are Appreciated!!!!!!!!!
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Peaceful I have nothing to add to your brillant words and insights so I am just topping your comment. Thanks for stopping by and sharing.
The same for everyone else who I have not addressed, and those I did. You are all AWESOME and am geniunely moved by your LOVE and Wisdom.
Garnet
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Okay David I have finally got to your comment.
First, don't worry about me taking it the wrong way..you are speaking HONESTLY and I respect as one of the best quailties a TRUE FRIEND would have.
Now with the socializing there may be different ways to look at it, I am just going to underline that my business definetly involves enjoying what you do!
As for the profanity...well right you are.
Jennifer Underwood11
Promoter
I am back....bellsouth had my internet all fudged up today :0(
I am glad to see this post going back on its right track...cause it is an awesome post!
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Steve how right you are! Now if we could all just face what may be inside of us or not......
Coach Steve Toth6
Garnet we all know everything, we just need to be open to it more!
To Your Success,
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Well I'm leaving now...I do have a life outside of this blog too you know.
Seeings as some of us here are discussing comments that weren't directed at us...here are a few thoughts.
Eric do you realise what you said pages back in disagreement with Jenn was really the same thing she said. Also that her remark was directed to me and not you.
Here's a couple thoughts for us all
Maybe sometimes we should just mind our own beeswax
Maybe sometimes we know nothing of the things we spea
Eric Smith7
Online Professional
Jeunelle,
I could point out where you were referring to admins bit for some reason you don't like being quoted... You must really hate forums where one can quote the last message or highlight the message you are responding too...
It makes it difficult to be involved in group conversation without quoting what one is replying too, especially when the remark is 2 or 3 pages back.
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Jenn, I agree this is bad for business as it is bad for all of apsense. What are any of us proving here?
Jennifer Underwood11
Promoter
I have given Eric any and every which way to get in contact with me....still haven't heard from him.
I have no problem with him, and if you take a look to the beginning of this thread you will see that my side has only been defending my comment that wasn't even addressed to him in the first place. It was addressed to you...the owner of this blog.
I am going to sign off.
And if this is bad for my business, I hate it for those that feel that way. Because if I stand up for myself, then I sta
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Heck I think I have finally lost it!
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
Okay
Could Eric, Jeunelle, Jennifer and myself deal with this ourselves somehow?
Eric Smith7
Online Professional
All i was saying is, there is no need to pick on the Admins here simply for doing their job. If it wasn't for them APsense would probably have already fallen into the what 90% of othe Social Networks are becoming...
All they need is the freedom to do their job and not be brought down simply for "Following the Rules" set by APsense management.
Heck, even i have had my encounters with them. But i understand they are following a "code of conduct" which is designed to give APsense the profess
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
OKAY
EVERYONE COOL IT!
NO MORE REMARKS TILL I HEAR FROM ERIC
Thank You.
Jennifer Underwood11
Promoter
Fishie it is absolutely ridiculous. But I def am one to stand up for myself, and someone is trying to make me look out to be something I am far from being......
I have said my piece about it, and still have not heard from him personally.
Pretty messed up.
Not Here8
just want my account deleted
No kidding fishie
I've had about ENOUGH
NOBODY upsets the Fishie
Not in My Blog!