When navigating the world of women, especially women one wants
to bed, guys can use a few sensual tips to make the way easier. Nowhere is this
truer than on a first date, where the awkwardness and anxiety can cause a dude
to say anything just to keep a conversation going. No matter how good-looking
he may be or how well his attention to proper male
organ care has paid off, saying
the wrong thing at the wrong time is going to sink a ship long before it really
sails. With that in mind, the following topics are best avoided – at least
until two people get to know each other better.
Politics.
Some mention of the events of the day
may be called for – and on some days is probably unavoidable. Still, it's best
to tread lightly here. Two new daters can touch on the subject, but unless it's
clear that both parties are on the same side of a subject, it's best to avoid
getting heated up about what some idiot in office did today. Besides, even if
two people are in agreement with politics, there's more interesting stuff to
discover about each other on an initial encounter.
Failings.
A guy who can be wittily self-effacing
about things he has done wrong is one thing; a dude who goes into detail about
all the things he does wrong is painting himself as a loser. While a man
doesn't want to come across as a self-involved egotist, it's still best to err
on the side of praising oneself rather than denigrating oneself.
His
size.
However well-endowed a guy might be,
talking about the massiveness of his member on a first date is simply out of
place. Besides, it's more effective if a guy plays it cool and lets partners
eventually discover that fact for themselves.
Exes
and sensual quirks.
No matter how awesome that ex-girlfriend
may have been, there's no place in the conversation for her. And no matter how
fascinating a dude thinks his numerous group sensual experiences have been,
bringing it up before he's even split an appetizer with a woman is creepy.
Also, a guy who offers sensual tips he's picked up along the way is not likely
to pick up the lady on the other end of the table who is visibly squirming at
his lack of tact.
Those
damn idiots at work.
Talking about the workplace is perfectly
acceptable, but a guy needs to be careful about how he does it. Too often men
like to blow off steam about the stupid things that their boss does or about
the co-worker who is dumb as cotton. Doing so in an irate manner will paint a
guy as a hothead who thinks he's superior to all those around him. Instead, a
man should first talk about the kind of job he has and why he finds it
rewarding or interesting. Later on, he can bring up some of the challenges he
has to deal with – but he should do so in a way that doesn't make him look like
a know-it-all.
Why
he's sweating.
Men sweat, and they sweat more when
they're nervous – as they're likely to be on a first date. Talking about why
he's sweating so heavily is unnecessary – and very unappealing.
All lists of sensual tips, whether for a
first date or not, should remind men that keeping their male organ healthy pays
off later on. For that reason, regularly applying a top-drawer male organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is necessary. Maintaining proper
member skin health requires a crème with vitamin E, which protects cell
membranes from harmful oxidation and helps prevent moisture from escaping the
skin. A crème that also contains acetyl L-carnitine is helpful in preventing
and repairing loss of sensation due to aggressive sensual activity which can
result in peripheral nerve injury to the manhood. Regular use insures that a
male organ will make an excellent impression upon its initial introduction to a
new partner.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
manhood health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity and what to do to
maintain a healthy male organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.