Long, luxurious sensual sessions are a great way to pass a few
hours, but the occasional quickie can be seriously enjoyable – especially when
one is genuinely pressed for time. The following are a few sensual tips for
those interested in a spot of speedy sport. A guy who has been keeping up his male organ care should be in good shape for a quickie
and can benefit from these suggestions.
Agree
on it.
Both partners are more likely to enjoy a
quickie when they're both aware that speed is part of the process. A guy can be
direct and say something like, "Let's just have a quickie," or more
indirect: "We have 10 minutes before we leave, but I'm not going to be
able to walk out the door if I don't get to savor your body first." As
long as the ground rules are clear, a quickie can be great fun. If a man starts
in on a quickie without sharing that information first, his partner may end up
confused and unsatisfied.
Possibly
plan for it.
As has been made abundantly clear in
article after article, women tend to take longer to achieve satisfaction than
do men – which means that achieving satisfaction from a quickie may be more
difficult for a lady. While spontaneity can be an exciting factor that works in
favor of the quickie, some women may be more likely to achieve satisfaction if
they know in advance that a quickie is in the cards. For example, planning
ahead that a fast romp in the hay will take place during that short window
between finishing dinner and going to the movie may allow a woman to fantasize
about the encounter ahead of time – and may help her to be more stimulated when
the action actually starts.
Consider
a change of scene.
Often a quickie works best when it
occurs in a location in which a couple has not previously been intimate. This
may be a new location in a familiar setting (such as the kitchen in one's
apartment) or one in a fairly unfamiliar setting (such as a hotel room or a
tent while camping). Do remember: whatever location is chosen, it needs to be
appealing – whatever that may mean to the individuals involved. If the bed is
uncomfortable or the sleeping bag is laid on top of rocks, it may not have the
desired effect.
Try
something new.
As they say, variety is the spice of
life. A quickie may be an ideal time to try some new sensual strategies.
Perhaps this is the opportunity to purchase a sensual toy, such as a vibrating
egg or a wand, and employ this to stimulate one's partner. Is there a new
sensual position that one has been wanting to try for some time? Perhaps one or
both partners might want to see what sensual activity is like when blindfolded.
Adding a new ingredient may make the quickie experience more fulfilling for
both participants. Of course, partners need to be comfortable with this. If the
woman likes surprises, it may be alright to spring one at this time; but if
surprises create anxiety, be sure that it is discussed in advance.
An occasional quickie can and should be
part of a couple's sensual life – and some may want to make them more than
occasional. These sensual tips can help, but equally important is keeping the
equipment healthy – and for that, using a superior male organ health crème (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil) is
strongly advised. The best crèmes include a range of vitamins, including
vitamin C. Why vitamin C? Because it contains properties which make it
especially valuable for collagen production and member tissue firmness. The
crème ideally should also contain L-arginine, an enzyme that is involved in the
production of nitric oxide, which in turns helps to keep male organ blood
vessels open and properly flowing. A healthy manhood makes a quickie that much
more enjoyable.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
manhood health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity and what to do to
maintain a healthy male organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.