Sensual fantasies are part and parcel of every man’s daily life;
sometimes they remain fantasies, but in many cases they can be brought into the
real world and may lead to better sensual activity for a man and his partner
(or partners). While there’s nothing wrong with keeping sensual fantasies as
part of a man’s self-gratifying experiences, incorporating some fantasies into
a relationship can have benefits. Part of appropriate male organ care includes making
sure the organ remains involved and interested, and spicing up one’s sensual
life can do just that.
For the man interested in exploring sensual fantasies with a
partner, here are a few tips.
- Prioritize. The first thing for a man to do is get
his sensual fantasies in order. Some men have only one or two fantasies; others
have dozens, perhaps hundreds. For those with multiple fantasies, it’s
important to understand that it may not be possible to realize many of them.
That’s why it’s a good idea to take a few moments to sort through them and
decide which are the ones that really would have the biggest impact and lead to
a better sensual life for the man and his partner. Once that has been
accomplished, he should pick a handful – the top three or top five, perhaps –
and concentrate on these fantasies.
- Examine the fantasies. Once the top fantasies have been
selected, the man then needs to look at them objectively. Are these fantasies
that are physically possible given a man’s circumstances? For example,
fantasies involving elaborate machinery may not be very likely to occur. Or a
man who fantasizes about, say, engaging in oral sensual activity while sky
diving may have to keep that as just a fantasy. But many fantasies can
easily be achieved: Role playing a situation in which a man is a cop and his
partner is a burglar, for example, or engaging in coupling in the middle of a
forest are “do-able” fantasies.
- Consider available partners. Assuming that these fantasies involve at
least one other person, the man then needs to think about who might be willing
to be involved in exploring these fantasies. If in a monogamous relationship,
the answer is fairly clear. If a man has several sensual playmates, the field
is more open.
- Think about partner preferences. Once the partner options have been
considered, a guy should weigh what he knows about the partners to determine
which one(s) would be most amenable to the desired fantasies. For example, an
actress might be very good at engaging in some role playing fantasies. A
partner with sensitive skin may not be open to coupling on a sandy beach.
Perhaps something that one partner said earlier indicates a curiosity about
exploring a threesome.
- Bring the subject up delicately. Once a man has matched a potential
fantasy to a potential partner, he should probably bring the subject up
delicately. Thrusting a whip into a woman’s hand and saying “I’ve been a bad,
bad boy. Punish me!” might be a tad startling if it comes out of the blue. Ease
into it instead: Make a joke slyly referencing a desire to be punished, or
gently lead the conversation around to fantasies and ask what fantasies one’s
partner might have, etc.
Adding sensual fantasies can definitely make for better sensual
activities, so a man needs to make sure his equipment is in proper health for
new fun and games. Regular use of a first-class male organ health cream (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil) helps
maintain general manhood health. The best creams contain a powerful
antioxidant (such as alpha lipoic acid) that offsets harmful oxidative
processes and avoids early on aging of manhood cells. In addition, a cream with
l-arginine can help with the process which keeps male organ blood vessels open
and blood flowing, an important component of male member health.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
manhood health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.