Depending on the kind of bridal shower that you are planning and who
will be attending, selecting the menu may be a pleasant experience, or a
daunting one. You are fortunate in that there is a vast assortment of
appropriate foods that you may use, making meeting everyone's needs much
less challenging than you expected. You should take into consideration
several aspects including: the bride, the guests, and your budget, when
making your menu selections.
Obviously, the bride should be the primary person to be considered when
selecting the food offerings for her shower. If the foods chosen are
foods that the bride dislikes, she probably will not be able to enjoy
her own bridal shower. She may have subtly mentioned items that she
would like to see served, or you may know what she likes to eat. This
will make choosing a menu easier. If you are the hostess, you should be
well aware of what foods she will find enjoyable.
The next item to consider is the guest list. Here you have a couple of
matters to address. First of all, taking into consideration the bride's
likes and dislikes should not entirely dictate the menu. If the bride
is the only one who will eat the food, that will not make for a very
festive party. There will be many hungry people for you to contend with.
In the case that the top menu choice of the bride is an item that no
one else at the party will eat, you may think about opting for her
second favorite and not serving the first at the bridal shower. You will
also need to keep in mind the individual requirements of attending
guests.
You may have guests on your list who are allergic to certain items or
have dietary restrictions. You do not want to offer a menu filled with
sweet foods, if you will be entertaining diabetic guests. Likewise, a
menu predominately comprised of meats would not be appetizing to
vegetarians. The object is to provide sufficient variety such that
everyone there will have enjoyable choices, even if there are some items
which people just do not like.
You will certainly need to plan a bridal shower that falls within your
budget constraints. The bride may desire caviar and champagne, but your
financial resources may only allow tuna and apple cider. You can try to
develop the menu using foods that you might typically purchase for your
family. You might limit the purchase of these items for special
occasions, but don't spend a lot of money on foods you would never
otherwise purchase.
You can look at planning the bridal shower menu much as you would look
at preparing a menu for a get together at your home. Special
arrangements should be made for the guest of honor, for your bridal
shower, that would be the bride. Remember to take into account your
guests' preferences and any individual special needs. Don't lose sight
of your budget constraints, and buy food items that your finances will
accommodate without leaving yourself short for necessary items. Planning
a bridal shower can be a challenging task, but limiting the complexity
of your menu will make your whole party much smoother.