What Does a Swinger Couple Actually Mean?

by Cynthia Monroe Be good to yourself, and others!

Swinging couples are not looking to cheat on the other person or to divorce because they no longer are attached to each other. A swinger couple is a couple that recognizes that they still love each other but they want more out of their sex life. Sex now days can be seen as making love or as a recreational activity, which most swinger couples see it as. Most couples love each other very much but they might have fantasies that they want to do but their partner won’t agree to, so the bury them and don’t do them. This is bad for them because this only makes the urge stronger and leads to them committing an infidelity on it.

Even sex therapists say that couple should try these kinds of fantasies because it could help their marriage but if the other person doesn't want to participate then they should look at different options. Today, most couple find it hard to be with the same person sexually, when they have so many options out there. Sex is no longer something that is only for people in a relationship, it is considered a fun activity to do, which is why swinging is making a comeback and more people are having open relationships.

The thing about the swinging lifestyle is that sexual fantasies need to be done together with your significant other and not alone. You have to communicate with each other and agree on ground rules and other specifications of the swinging. A swinging couple is not a couple that just goes out and sleeps with different people all the time. Some swingers just flirt with another couple or they might choose to sleep with them as well. It is up to the swinging couple how far it goes. And they also have to take comfort into consideration too; most swinging couples take it slow and then built with to having sex with someone else.

And there are many different ways that a swinging couple can experiment with. Some people have bi-sexual fantasies that they want to try, while others might just fool around as another couple watches. A swinging couple doesn't want to be labeled as a pervert, they just want to act on the fantasies that they have and they have the choice to either like it or not. That is the point, acting on these fantasies might not be what they want and then they can try something else. A swinging couple wants more freedom and this kind of lifestyle gives it to them.