Both men and women enjoy
mixing oral sensual activity into their love lives, but too often the activity
is approached with perhaps less preparation and thought than is appropriate.
There are any number of tips that can help both genders make the oral sensual
activity experience even more pleasurable, and some are shared below. One tip
for men to remember before all others: Make sure that one's regular male organ care routine keeps the manhood in the kind
of physical condition that makes a woman more likely to perform orally. A
member that looks (or smells) unhealthy is not a member she wants to wrap her
lips around.
Tips for Her
Be confident. Really,
this tip applies to both men and women. A lover who is sure of him/herself
tends to be more satisfying. Sometimes a woman approaches oral sensual activity
with a male organ a bit tentatively. A man likes it when a woman preps his
member with assurance and launches into oral gratification with a purpose and a
goal.
Go bit by bit. Don't
feel obligated to take in large portions of the shaft right away. A man usually
prefers to have a woman run her tongue around the tip of his member for a
while, and then to slowly take the shaft into her mouth an inch or so at a
time. This also helps the woman to adapt to the feel of the organ and to reduce
the gag reflex that can accompany oral sensual activity on a male.
Take breaks. Having
a firm manhood in the mouth can become tiring, so find times to remove the
member from the mouth. Licking the shaft or engaging in manual stroking during
these breaks can keep the momentum going for him.
Cool it down. Adding
a bit of coolness to the oral sensual activity experience can be mind-blowing
for a man. Keep a glass of cold water by the bed and occasionally take a sip
and then return to gratifying the manhood. The change in temperature on his hot
member will be very pleasurable for him.
Tips for Him
Don't rush in. Guys tend to like to
get down to business with sensual activity. Just as with partner coupling, it
sometimes pays to do a little "warming up" of one's lady love before
opening up the oral pleasure chest. Make sure to engage in plenty of kissing,
caressing and gentle stroking of the chest, female organ and other sensitive
zones before engaging in oral sensual activity.
Take your time. A woman wants to enjoy this
experience and doesn't want to feel rushed. Start slowly and don't feel like
there's a timetable that needs to be adhered to.
Tell her you enjoy it, too. Even if a guy doesn't
particularly like giving oral sensual activity, he should be generous during
the moment. Find ways to enjoy it more and let the lady know that giving her
pleasure is something that gives a man great pleasure.
Follow her lead. As the oral sensual activity
progresses, she may want a few different approaches. If she asks for something
different, accommodate her; it isn't a criticism, just some helpful guidance.
Use a pillow. Propping
her pelvis on a pillow makes access to her full female organ area easier and
enables a man to provide greater oral pleasure.
One
last tip: Guys who want oral sensual activity should use a first-class male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to keep the manhood appealing. If a
guy's member tends to emit an unpleasant aroma, a crème with the anti-bacterial
power of vitamin A will help head that odor off at the pass. If a guy's manhood
has dry, flaky skin, using a crème with a high-end emollient (like Shea butter)
can help moisturize the member and make the skin smooth and attractive. And a
cream with a powerful antioxidant (such as alpha lipoic acid) is going to help
offset oxidative and aging processes in cell metabolism that can cause an
unwanted wrinkled look to the male organ. The best of tips: A woman will be
more open to oral sensual activity if she is presented with a healthy member.