WHY DO PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE There
are a number of reasons why people fall in love. Some people fall in
love for the right reasons. Others do it out of lack of confidence. They
do not want to be alone, which is not a good enough reason. We�ll
look at the two grounds: the right reason and the wrong reason. 1. Right reasons Here,
people fall in love because they want to offer someone something good
that they have. They want to be with someone not as to depend on him or
her but to share their life with them. They have something good to offer
and they want something good in return. They want to spend time with
someone not because they are scared to be alone but because they enjoy
the other person�s company. They are not in the relationship with
closed eyes but open eyes. They can see all; the good and bad happening,
and they are ignoring the bad because they are scared to be alone, or
because they feel embarrassed that it�s happening to them. Being in
love is about giving and receiving what is good. Please, underline the
word good. Most people miss this point. A lot of people love the idea of
being in love but not the actual fact. If many people understand the
real reason of being in love and what being in love is, there would be
less divorce, heartbreaks, suicides, violence and anything else that is
related to bad breakups or bad relationships. How can you tell someone you love him or her when you cheating on him or her. How can you tell someone that you love him or her when you can�t even stand the way him or her treats you. How
can you say that you are in love when you always fight? How can you say
that you are in love when you don�t have the same goals? He wants to
have children and you don�t to have children. The relationship is
doomed from the start. You are only together because you don�t want to
be alone. You love the idea of being in love but you are not actually
living it. You can�t be in love if you are not in love. The other
reason why people fall in love is because people like to be treated
nicely. They like to live in a good environment and be with people who
know and understand them. In essence love does fulfill this. You can get
this kind of environment from your family or friends or strangers but
it is not within a time frame. It can end anytime and also family,
friends and strangers won�t always have time for you. They have their
own lives to live. So as much as they love you, they can�t guarantee
that they will always here for you. People also have sexual
needs and thus they also want to be in an environment where that need,
will be met when necessary. Thus, being in love �guarantees� both of
this: the niceness and the sex. Thus a person is free to do whatever he
or she wants, knowing that he or she have someone who cares for their
person and is �always� there for him or for her physically,
emotionally and sexually. This is the ultimate human desire and every human being seeks to achieve this point of their life (being in love). Most
of the time, this has been achieved through heterosexual relationships
and in a few cases, which is now becoming many and common, through same
sex relationships. People in same sex relationships can equally be in love just as much as people in heterosexual relationships. Because being in love is about assurance. Whoever gives you the assurance is the one you fall in love with. It even makes it easier if you have a lot in common. A
twenty-years old girl can fall in love with a sixty-years old man and
vice versa. And it has happened in a lot of cases where people with a
big age gap have fallen in love.Anyone can fall in love but not all do
it for the right reasons. 2. Wrong reasons There are a lot of
people who fall in love for the wrong reasons and because of this, they
can�t be in love. Being in love is a wonderful thing and some people
just like the idea of it. But in order to be in love, you have to be
in love with someone. And this is where the trouble arises. Because some
people love the idea of being in love so much, they end up falling in
love with the first person that is a little bit nice to them. They
don�t take their time to know the person. And even if the person shows
signs of hurting them in the future, they ignore the signs. They are
more concerned about being with someone, than being with someone who
really loves and cares about them. It takes
a long time to know a really good person but it only takes a short time
to know a bad person. A good person is there but you just don�t
notice because you are too busy looking everywhere else other than next
to you. A bad person is at a far distance, all you have to do is look up
and they will come over to you. A lot of people (girls especially) are
scared of being alone. Thus they always end up falling for the wrong
person because their logic mind is clouded with the desire to be with
someone, anybody that shows interest in them. They don�t assess the
person. All they care about is that he/she doesn�t come on to
strongly. They don�t care about his looks, what he does for a living,
his interests and future plans. We are constantly told not to worry
about these things; looks, money etc. But if you are going to commit to
someone, you will have to do so knowing how, the lack of or having these
things will affect your relationship in the future. Most relationships
end because people change their minds. For example, they hook up with
someone without money and they don�t have money either. It seems good
at first with all the love and sex but you have to survive as well. And
so when the times get tough, they pull out of the relationship. They
can�t handle having no money and this leads to them to do more
worrying and struggling than loving and enjoying life. I should point
out that there are a lot of people who have had successful
relationships with only a little bit of money. Money isn�t everything
to those who can live without it. In another case, someone would go
out with a fairly unattractive person because they don�t want to be
alone. They ignore the unattractiveness instead of accepting it. The
relationship is good at first because of all the adrenaline of being
with someone new and the sex offered. Thereafter, the adrenaline goes
down and they are forced to look at the person and realize that they
can�t handle their unattractiveness and start looking for a way out of
the relationship. Any quarrel or opportunity to meet someone else is
taken as a reason to breakup. Most relationships are not over, on the
day someone says it�s over, but weeks, months or years in advance.
You were just looking for the perfect time to tell someone and also the
embarrassment of not being able to honor your commitment, love puts you
off from telling that person until you are discovered of cheating on
them, or forced to, out of anger during an argument. People also fall
in love to show off. The love the idea of being in love so much and
they don'� want to be left out. They want everyone to see that they
can be loved as well. There are the ones who normally talk about
their partner and how much they love them, all the time to their
friends. There is a difference between being happy and showing
off. To them its not just a matter of I have a wonderful partner
but, see what he did for me, look at us, observe closely, keep watching,
listen. The whole relationship is superficial. Its a show mostly put
up for their friends and anyone in close proximity. This is a
relationship that doesn't involve planning for the future, sharing
ideas, growing together. But its more of being together for everyone
to see that you are not alone. A lot of young girls fall into this. A lot of young guys love to show off too. People
should realize that there is nothing wrong with being single because it
gives you time to make yourself a better person for your partner. A
lot of time is spent and wasted looking for the right person instead of
making yourself the right person. Instead of looking for Mr. Right, be
Ms. Right, and Mr. Right will find you, and vice versa. If you want something good, you should be willing to offer something good We
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are a number of reasons why people fall in love. Some people fall in
love for the right reasons. Others do it out of lack of confidence. They
do not want to be alone, which is not a good enough reason. We�ll
look at the two grounds: the right reason and t...