Exhibitionism is a common sensual fantasy for men and women
alike. Exposing part of one’s body in a sudden manner can feel both liberating
and sensually thrilling. But the exhibitionist must take extreme care when acting
out his or her fantasy. For a man, male organ exposure can easily become a
legal issue, not to mention a moral one. Viewing another’s sensual organ is a
sensual act and, as such, requires explicit consent. While it may seem like a
fantasy best resisted, then, one shouldn’t forget that a satisfying sensual
life is important in many areas, from male
organ health to mental
well-being. Therefore, it’s important for men to learn about safe, legal and
moral ways in which they may indulge their desires. (And if that doesn’t work,
men should seek out the assistance of a sensual therapist.)
Role
Play
If the idea of exposing oneself in a
public setting is very enticing to a man, he may want to find a consenting partner,
or multiple partners, with whom to act out such scenarios. They may, for
example, place chairs in rows to mimic a bus or train, and the “passengers” can
engage themselves in reading the paper or listening to music while the
exhibitionist unzips his pants. He may draw different reactions from the
different passengers, and how far he takes his exposure depends on his fantasy.
He may simply want his male organ to be seen; he may want to play with it; he
may want others to get physical with him.
This is but one example of role playing.
Men can act out scenarios at clubs, on the beach, in the locker room, etc. A
man may toy around with different levels of exposure in each scenario, from
touching his manhood to self-pleasuring to engaging in sensual activity with
one or more partners.
Surprised
Partner
If the element of surprise is important
to a man, he may want to consider seeking out a partner who likes to be
surprised. Such a partner might get a thrill from unexpected dick pics or from
entering the room to find the exhibitionist suddenly exposed. In such an
arrangement, boundaries need to be laid out and made crystal clear. Two people
should talk about boundaries before engaging in any type of sensual activity,
and should touch base throughout their relationship and update parameters if
necessary.
Find a
Party/Club
Sometimes there’s nothing like being
watching by strangers, and men with such a desire may find fulfillment by
attending a club that provides designated spaces for open exposure or sensual
activity. A man may also find himself invited to a party at another like-minded
individual’s house where couples can get together and enjoy themselves.
Finding out about such places and events
may be the tricky part. One resource men can try is FetLife, an online
community primarily comprised of kinksters. Seeing what the community is like
in one’s area can be a good place to start. Many communities hold “munches” –
non-sensual, informal gatherings for making connections in one’s area. One may
find himself informed of places and events to his liking at such a gathering.
Proper male organ upkeep is important
for any man, but the man who likes to get maximum exposure should take
particular care that what he’s presenting is in peak shape. Along with regular
washing, a man should take care of his skin condition by using a quality male organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) on a daily basis. Such a moisturizer,
particularly designed for the male organ, will keep the skin resilient and
radiant without causing irritation from harsh chemicals or fragrances. Look for
a combination of Shea butter, vitamin E and vitamin C, which will provide
plenty of natural hydration while promoting manhood tissue firmness and a
youthful appearance. Treat the member well, and present it proudly!