Is there Anything Shameful in Being a ‘Ghar Jamai’?

Remember the last family gathering where your jamai raja came? Remember the utter sense of respect the entire family was given to him? Remember how everyone was adding a ‘ji’ to his name by calling him ‘jamai ji’ while addressing him? Well, that is the kind of respect that the patriarchal society offers to their jamai raja. But what happens when this jamai raja becomes a ghar jamai?