Sink or Swim

This is a question that most online marketeers ask themselves after a while. I have been treading water now for several months. I can't seem to get this done. I have tried safelists, blogs, ebay, and social networking sites like this one. Nothing I do seems to help Obviously this is something I should not be doing. I have yet to figure out how people make ANY money online let alone get enough to survive life. I am very open to suggestions right now. Please feel free to let me know you best ideas on how to overcome this problem. I have been pulling out my hair trying with no success. I at this point have no money and can't pay for any programs. Please keep this mind as you tell me about you best idea. Thanks Bob Laibach