what are the genuine lists of sites

Each person will give you a different list Rose. You know that by now. And the lists will be based more on what they want you to join under them than which ones are truly stable and honest. It's up to you to check them each out and form your own opinion as to which might work best for you. As an example, most of my current favourites can be found here:

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