Telling the truth even when it hurts

Always tell the truth. There is nothing worse than telling someone something just to spare their feelings. Because the truth always comes out in the end. And would'nt it be better if they had heard it from you in the first place? Never lead someone on thinking that you are on board with what ever it is and then they find out that all along you where just blowing smoke. If your not interested say your not interested so that they can move on to the ones who are. Just sayin.....can anyone relate to this? and have you been through this yourself? wpould love to hear your story. please share