Better Sensual Activity: Using Adult Materials to Enhance the Experience
Adult materials get a bad rap, and not without some
justification. Yet despite problems with them, adult materials in many
different forms continue to be enjoyed by men (and women). Since frequent
release of seed is a component of male
organ health, the self-pleasuring aids can be seen as conducive to a healthy
activity. But they are not just for solo use; adult materials are often used as
a way to stimulate better sensual activity for a couple.
It's not always visual.
When people think of adult materials, sensual videos and
pictures are what tend to come to mind. Yet adult materials don't have to be
relegated strictly to the visual realm. Some couples may find that audio-based
materials may be more up their alley.
For example, simply "talking dirty" may stimulate
sensual interest in a new way. If a couple tends to use technical terms when
referring to their organs or their actions, they may respond positively to
getting "down and dirty" with their language during sensual activity.
Role-playing is another option. A couple decides on a
sensual-based scenario and takes on the guise of characters in that scenario.
For example, a man may play a policeman pulling over a woman for speeding. The
woman explains the sensual favors she would do to get out of receiving a
ticket, and the couple moves forward from there.
Or some partners may simply enjoy coupling while listening to
(but not watching) an adult video. The sounds of other couples moaning and
groaning may stimulate more than one's audio senses.
But visual can be good.
Of course, "traditional" adult materials are also a
worthy option. Assuming that both partners are interested in exploring this
together, it still helps to discuss a few things in advance:
- Comfort level. Are both partners equally interested, or
is one "pushing" the other? There's not necessarily anything wrong
with asking about it, but partners need to be sensitive and realize that some
people simply may not be receptive.
- Genre. A man may be intensely into a sensual
video in which one guy is serviced by a bevy of beautiful women. His mate may
also be into this – but then again, she very well may not. It's a good idea to
determine in advance what areas of adult materials a couple wants to explore;
in general, it's usually best to start with fairly "straightforward"
adult content.
- Share. Couples should establish that sharing
their thoughts about the adult materials – whether during or after the viewing
– is acceptable and can lead to better sensual activity. For example, a woman
may want to point out that the position a couple is using onscreen might be a
lot of fun, or a man may want to say that the way the actress is stroking the
actor's member is exactly the way he likes to be fondled. It's also okay to
continue this conversation when the couple has moved on to engaging in sensual activity
themselves. Saying, "Can you enter me the way he did?" or,
"Try holding me that way" while in the midst of coupling can be
valuable.
Experiencing adult materials together can lead to better sensual
activity for many couples. Of course, a man wants to make sure his manhood is
in peak condition for the sensual activity that results, so he needs to
regularly apply a top-notch male
organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Making sure the crème include
L-arginine is another good idea. L-arginine is involved in the production of
nitric oxide, which in turn is essential for keeping male organ blood vessels
open – an important factor in performance health. Also key: selecting a crème
with acetyl L-carnitine. The manhood often becomes de-sensitized due to rough
handling. Acetyl L-carnitine is neuroprotective and helps to maintain proper
member sensitivity so that the organ experiences all those pleasurable
sensations.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.