Though people have been making love and men have had male organs
since the dawn of man, there are still many popular misconceptions about the
body and what one should do with it. Many lovemaking myths and male organ
misconceptions create undue distress and self-consciousness for men that may
interfere with a healthy intimate life and self-conception; others can lead to
unsafe practices. Since lovemaking is an important component of male organ health and overall well-being, men are
advised to get the facts straight on their bodies and one of their favorite
activities. Dispensing with the following myths is a good place to start.
1) The
8-Inch Myth
Many men feel inadequate in terms of
male organ length because they have the idea that the average hard organ should
protrude a full 8 inches from the pelvis. This is actually extremely rare. Men
can rest assured that the average length ranges from 5.5-6.3 inches.
2) Size
Matter a Lot
It’s true that a long male organ can
easily stimulate sensitive areas within a woman that some (certainly not all)
women enjoy, such as the posterior and anterior fornixes, located beyond the
cervix. However, a shorter male organ can still bring great pleasure by
stimulating the G-spot, which is only a few inches within the female organ on
the anterior wall. Men with shorter members can also get a deeper feel for both
himself and his partner by using from-behind positions and asking partners to
squeeze their thighs together.
3) Cut
is the Norm
Adopting a global perspective undoes
this idea. While 35% of newborns in the U.S. were intact, according to a CDC
report in 2009, nearly 70% of males around the world remain uncut. And, hey,
35% isn’t a drastic minority.
4) She
Should Release from Penetration
Some men think that, if they can’t bring
a lady to release with their male organ alone through penetration, then they
are doing something wrong. According to author Elizabeth Lloyd, only about a
quarter of women achieve release through internal stimulation. Most women need
external stimulation to get there, and there is nothing wrong with that. A man
can, however, increase the intensity of her finish by hitting her pleasure
zones internally (such as the G-spot) while the outside is being stimulated.
5) He
Should Last an Hour
While some partners prefer long sessions
of lovemaking, the amount of time a couple takes should depend on individual
preferences and abilities, not some arbitrary idea of how much stamina a man “should”
have. Research indicates that three to seven minutes of continual thrusting is
all most men can take before releasing. If a couple desires longer sessions,
taking breaks to switch up position and slowing down at times may help make
that happen.
6) The
Male Organ Can’t Break
It’s true that there are no bones in the
male organ, so it can’t break like the forearm or other bones in the body. But
manhood fracturing is a real, though rare, phenomenon. What fractures in this
instance is one or both corpora cavernosa – the chambers within the male organ
that fill up with blood to make it hard. When one or both chambers rupture, the
blood rushes out, causing immediate bruising along with a loud popping sound
and excruciating pain. Men should be careful when a female partner is on top;
careless re-entry can cause manhood fracturing.
In order for men to have a healthy
lovemaking life, they need to dispense with misconceptions that make them
needlessly self-conscious of their bodies and their performance. Lovemaking is
personal, and what is right for a pair of partners depends on the partners
themselves, not cultural ideas of how things should be in bed. Along with
educating themselves about body and lovemaking myths, men can take an extra
step toward boosting confidence by using a male
organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil).
Just as a skin care product designed for the face promotes smooth, healthy and
soft skin, so does one designed for the male organ. Shea butter and vitamin E
are fantastic natural moisturizers to seek out in a crème.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on
most common member health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity and
what to do to maintain a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a professional writer
who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.