Even the most confident Casanova occasionally likes a few
sensual tips to help keep him at the top of his game in the bedroom. So often
such sensual tips revolve around areas of skill or of male organ health, but there are other
areas that can impact sensual satisfaction as well. Not surprisingly, one of
these is the physical area where so much intimacy takes place: the bedroom.
Location
As real estate agents know, location is
everything - and it certainly can be a factor in how well an encounter plays
out, whether an initial seduction or a liaison with a familiar partner. While
there is a great deal to be said for coupling in new and varied places, for
most people the bedroom is going to be the primary location for sensual
consummation. So it pays to keep these sensual tips in mind:
Clutter
is a turn-off.
Some men can pull off a slightly rumpled
look. For these men, a bed that is not expertly made or a lampshade that is
askew can be a bit charming. But even these men can’t get away with a bedroom
that is a mess. A partner doesn’t want to trip over pizza boxes getting into
bed or stub a toe on a boot left in the middle of the floor. And a bedroom in
which underwear, socks and t-shirts are strewn carelessly about gives off
negative vibes. Not only does it indicate a lack of respect for the person that
has been brought to bed, it indicates this man isn’t adult. Always keep the
bedroom at an acceptable level of tidiness – and go beyond that level to
impress a partner.
A
picture is worth a thousand words.
The pictures in the bedroom can send
many messages. Don’t keep photos of ex-girlfriends in view unless one wishes to
have a lot of explaining to do. Pictures of the family may be nice, but they
shouldn’t be obtrusive; no girl wants to glance over at the bedside table while
in the throes of ecstasy to see a picture of her lover’s mother staring at her.
Sensual art can be tricky. What may be a
sensual picture to one person may be unacceptably brazen to another. But the
sensual photo that truly excites can make a big difference in the bedroom.
Display
sensual toys sparingly.
When first introducing a partner to
one’s bedroom, it’s usually best to limit the sensual toys on display – unless
this is something a man is upfront and open about from the beginning. However,
one or two “safe” toys, such as a manhood ring, is usually fine and may open up
the way for discussion of other sensual playthings.
Bedding
is crucial.
Comfort is key, so an appropriately soft
mattress with several restful pillows is a must. Sheets should also be soft and
(it goes without saying) clean. They also should be the sheets of a man, not a
boy: manly prints or masculine solids are far preferable to SpongeBob.
Remember
the lights.
Harsh lighting is out. Ditch the
overhead fluorescents and go for table lamps – or, even better, scented
candles.
Keep a
discreet mirror nearby.
A mirror on the ceiling may be too bold,
but a large wall mirror or standing mirror located unobtrusively in the room
can allow for some self-watching by a couple – when they are in the mood for
such a viewing.
When a man catches sight of his manhood
in that mirror, he may get a shock if his member is not in its best condition –
and remember, it may shock his partner, too. Using a first-rate male organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can be an aid in maintaining health.
Choose one with Shea butter to help alleviate unwanted dry skin and with a
potent antioxidant like alpha lipoic acid to help with “wrinkled” male organ
skin. As a bonus, the crème that comes with acetyl L-carnitine helps deal with
diminished sensitivity that can come from overuse of the organ – a good problem
to have, and one that’s more likely when one follows these sensual tips for the
bedroom.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.