“Music hath charms to
soothe,” as the saying goes; it also has charms to spark and inspire better
sensual activity, so a well-considered sensual tune stack should be in every
man's home. Music alone won't do the trick; proper male organ care, personality,
seductiveness and skill, for example, are also important. But many men find
that the entire coupling experience can be enhanced by the use of appropriate
music.
Determine the mood.
Not just any music will do in every situation, of course. The
first thing a man should do is determine what kind of mood he wants to set with
his selection of music.
Does the given situation call for something seductive,
especially if this is his first time with this particular partner? Would a more
playful or frisky sonic background be better suited? Is a selection that
demonstrates the romance in his soul the way to a more titillating bedroom
encounter? Will she be more likely to enjoy the experience if the aural
landscape is mystical or ethereal? Or is music that calls forth a raucous
bacchanalia more in keeping with this particular evening?
Knowing the right mood to aim for is crucial in determining the
best selection.
Take the partner's taste into account.
Music can most definitely be used to bring one's self-pleasuring
experiences to a new level; a man is free to choose whatever music he desires
when settling in for a good fondle. However, when a partner is involved, it's
important to keep her or his taste in mind when picking the music.
This makes sense: The man choosing music to induce or enhance a
romantic escapade is clearly already in the mood. The music, therefore, needs
to appeal to the partner. Clearly it would be self-defeating to choose music
which thrusts a man OUT of the mood, so finding something that stimulates her
while not annoying him is essential.
In most cases, a man has been around his partner long enough to
know along what lines her musical tastes run; perhaps he even knows her
favorite musical artists. If not, he may want to take a look at her iPod or CD
collection. It goes without saying that if his partner has at any point
exclaimed, "That's my favorite band!" or, even better, "God,
that song makes me feel so frisky," then the man needs to have made a
mental note about this fact.
Think about length.
How much music is going to be necessary to accomplish the goal
one lays out? Should the music cover the entire period, from one's opening move
on the couch to the final release in bed? Will just a few minutes to cover the
initial seduction be sufficient? Or would the man prefer to start the music
only when the bedcovers are turned down?
In some instances, simply playing "Unchained Melody"
and dancing close may be all that is required. Others may want to have Ravel's
"Bolero" on repeat for an evening-long ride into ecstasy.
One thing a man wants to avoid: running out of music at a
crucial time. It's best to prepare a playlist that's approximately fifteen
minutes longer than what a man thinks is appropriate – and to make sure it
doesn't rely too heavily on one song, no matter how effective that song may be.
Careful selection of music can help bring about better sensual
activity, but a man wants to make sure his equipment is in proper health to
enjoy it. Regular use of a top-drawer male
organ health cream (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can help. Select one that
includes L-arginine, which aids in the healthy oxygenation of manhood cells.
Another ingredient to look for is vitamin D, the "miracle" vitamin
that fights disease and enables cell functionality. A cream with these and
other nutrients plays a big part in keeping the tool in good health.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common
manhood health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity and what to do
to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who
specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.