Small Male Organ Humiliation: A Turn-On for Some
Modern
culture has placed a disproportionate emphasis on male organ size, to the
extent that a man with even a slightly small male organ may feel embarrassed or
distraught because he lacks a tool of staggeringly large dimensions. Other
factors such as male
organ health and skill
in the use of the member are usually far more important than length or girth,
yet male organ size remains the asset that most men long for. There are some
men, however, who possess what would be considered a small male organ but are
perfectly comfortable with this; there are also others who possess a small
organ and find a unique form of sensuous pleasure from this very fact, a
pleasure derived from humiliation.
SPH
Small
male organ humiliation (often simply referred to as SMOH) is a consensual form
of psychological humiliation in which the perceived small size of a man's organ
is commented upon for the purpose of creating a feeling of stimulating
satisfaction. That satisfaction is often accompanied by a firming of the
manhood (if it was not already firm), and frequently followed by release.
Although humiliation may be a component of partner playtime or oral sensual
gratification, often SMOH is paired with self-pleasuring. In some cases, the
stimulation caused by verbal humiliation and exposure of the member may result
in a release without the use of any external stimulation.
Size
Varies
The
real key to SMOH is humiliation rather than male organ size. In fact, a man
with a very large manhood could conceivably participate in SMOH if he
misperceives the size of his organ and believes it to be small. Men who
participate in SMOH vicariously, through literature or visual aids in which a
man with a diminished manhood suffers humiliation, can possess tools of any
size. In this latter case, the man excited by the humiliating experiences of
other men may be identifying with the humiliated man or with the person
administering the humiliation.
Humiliation
Varies
The
degree of humiliation involved in an SMOH situation can vary significantly.
Some men find it most satisfying when the humiliation is minimal. For example,
a man who perceives his male organ size as inadequate may be excited by a
partner who makes relatively benign comments couched in loving terms, such as,
"Let me see my guy's little man," or, "He's a little bitty tool,
but he packs a punch." These comments are slightly humiliating and
infantilizing, but are largely accepting and nurturing.
For
other men, tumescence is best achieved when the humiliation is more pronounced.
This may involve the partner mocking a man’s male organ size in more aggressive
terms while the two are alone. Some men also enjoy a public form of
humiliation, such as being forced by a partner to admit to others that he has a
small male organ or posting pictures of his organ online with derogatory
comments.
Boundaries
Because
every person's feelings are different, it is important for a man who engages in
actual SMOH (as opposed to simply using SMOH-based visual aids) to be clear
about what boundaries are relevant to him and to engage in SMOH only with
partners who will respect those boundaries. For example, a man may want to do a
role play in private in which he is forced to expose his manhood to others but
might be uncomfortable if this went beyond the private role playing stage. Partners
need to be on the same page in these matters.
Keep
it healthy
When
used properly and in situations that are comfortable for both partners, small
male organ humiliation can be liberating for certain men. In some cases, it can
help a man stop focusing undue attention on male organ size and concentrate on
other issues, such as the health of his tool. One excellent way to maintain
that health, whether of a small, medium or large member, is the use of a
top-notch male organ health
cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man
Oil). A cream with
vitamin A has the added bonus of helping to fight unwanted manhood odors; if it
also contains vitamin C, which promotes collagen production and tissue firmness
into old age, it’ll put a man ahead of the game.