Sitting at your desk late at night, all your duties are complete for your home to run accordingly, you start flirting online with a complete stranger. Now, either you are polite and excuse yourself for the evening, or you continue on and repeat the next night. You don't see anything wrong with just "chatting", so it carries out for sometime. invisible lines have been crossed and you are oblivious. Then, bam! One of you wants to take it further and meet for coffee.

At first you are excited and have butterflies in your gut. Then as you step away from the computer, after answering "maybe soon", you walk past your sleeping children's rooms. You stop and stare. You either get mad at yourself and want to run back to your computer and say, "No, No, I cant". Or you merely kiss their sleeping foreheads and go off to bed, where your devoted spouse of 9 years is resting peacefully.

Now, unaware to you, your sleeping husband has already suspected you are flirting online. He has read the statistics that 1 out of 4 online flirters ultimately cheat in real life. He has already hired a well known Private Investigator to catch you cheating online, and he has been assured that he will "catch the cheater". Not only does the PI investigate, he can use the latest technology to examine your computer hard drive to recover deleted emails, pics and texts. He can even trace your email address to secret personal ads or social networking sites like Myspace or Facebook

Your husband already decided never to be a victim and that's why he took the initiative to hire someone on his behalf. One his children's behalf. he already heard all about how Sandra Bullock found out about Jesse James. we know a few details people magazine told us about, but the PI told him that there are ways that many don't know about. How it can be done and to let him do his work.

So before you innocently start anything with anyone, think of what you are doing before its to late. Consider that there will be a price to pay and ask yourself, can you pay the ultimate cost. Can you survive and not lose yourself along the way? If you cant answer these questions, know that the one you are hurting has already answered them for themselves. The hiring of the Private Investigator was a huge step, no turning back now.

You can't hide from a PI that is an expert in infidelity investigations and an expert in computer and cell phone forensics. He will trace your emails, he will investigate your cell phone records, undelete your deleted emails and texts and uncover every secret.