Why Do Younger Women Seeking Older Men For Age Gap Dating? 

by Joykelven b. BBWCouple plusizedating

It is commonly said that love has little to do with age, so I am not surprised that many younger women are willing to date older men.  Age gap dating has existed for a long time and it is obvious both parties in this relationship are mostly happy. But why are young women interested in older men?

I have done some research and found valid reasons that can explain the growing trend of age gap dating.

Older men seem more experienced when dating younger women

In this regard, experience is not only about sex but understanding. The chances that an older man has met someone like the young lady before is high. This means they can listen and understand how younger women feel. Many women look for a man who understands them; the relationship is better that way.


Dating an older man also comes with peace of mind because they are usually more committed to starting and staying in a relationship. We are talking about men who have probably had many ex-girlfriends or wives. They are not interested in fooling around with more women at an old age. It is easy to stay committed to a relationship; what’s more, older men have all the gratification they need when older men dating young women.

Mutual benefits of age gap dating

Older men dating younger women also tend to find more peace because the relationship is mutually beneficial to both people. In this type of age gap relationship, both individuals know what they want, whether it is spoken or unspoken, they develop respect for each other, and the relationship is mutually beneficial for older men dating younger women or women seeking older men.

Long-term relationship

Young women can enjoy the benefits of long-term relationships through age gap dating. When they find an older man who is attracted to them, he hardly acts unfaithfully because the relationship provides all he needs from a woman. Young women will be happy to start a long-term relationship with an older man to avoid the troubles of dating young men who may not be ready to stay faithful.


It is common to find couples who started a relationship because they instantly connected when they met. Before a young woman is dating an older man she connects with and they become friends, she will be happy to consider the chances of starting age gap relationship with him after a while.

Financial stability

It is not always about the money. Many women seek friendship and someone they can talk to openly. However, I have identified financial stability as one of the reasons young women are willing to start dating an older man. These men have probably been working for many years; they have savings or plans for a financially secure future when compared to younger men just starting their lives. So, young women feel more comfortable dating an older man who fits this description.


Accomplished older men in different professional fields can also attract younger women who are just starting that career. Even as a mentor, the older man can be a loving partner and friend.

Age gap relationships are beautiful to see; when you come across these couples, it is obvious they respect and love each other.

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Created on Dec 18th 2018 19:58. Viewed 397 times.


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