What Are The Skills to Look For in Your Life Coach?
by Dillon Patterson Article PublisherI
am frequently asked why I decided on an additional career in life coaching. As
I sat down to ponder this question, I realized I could look at it from both
directions. One, what skills do I have that relate to a life coach, and two,
what services is one looking for from life coaching?
Probably
the most common answer that comes to all coaches as to why they coach is that
they enjoy helping others solve a problem with which they are struggling. And
everyone has something with which they are struggling. All coaches - life
coaches and executive business coaches enjoy being a strategist and helping
people define and plan a course of action.
Along
with helping someone come the skill of being a good listener. A life coach has
to be a skilled and active listener. The skilled listener provides the client
with space and safety to talk about their topic without fear of judgment; all
the while being patient and avoiding the temptation to butt into the dialog
with similar or competing stories. Active listening also requires listening for
what isn't being said. This draws on the life coach's intuition skills, and
being able to sense things about the person that isn't obvious or apparent in
the moment.
An
effective coach usually loves to learn multiple assessment and coaching tools
to use to help their clients. They are excited about sharing and using their
learned skills, and willing to use the most appropriate tools for the
situation. These different tools may consist of assessment tools, exercises,
journaling, somatic body work, visualization techniques - and the list goes on.
Someone looking to hire a life coach or executive business coach should inquire
into the breadth of tools the coach has to offer.
There
are so many additional skills and reasons a person gets into life coaching, but
I won't try to list them all here. From the perspective of the client who is
looking for a great coach, I think I'll end on this note. Search and locate a
list of coaches who are certified life coach from institute like Noble
Manhattan USA.
Review their website and look for testimonials. If you find a particular coach
you're interested in, ask them if you can speak to their clients who are seeking
the coach for the same reason as you. Finally, interview the coach to see what
breadth of training, tools and techniques he or she uses to fully understand
and support their clients.
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