The Basics Of Visiting Jewish Cemeteries

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Feb 25, 2019
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One thing you may have noticed when going on Jewish heritage tours is that cemeteries are often included in the itinerary.  It may seem rather morbid to visit the resting place of the dead, but there’s more to a Jewish cemetery than just being a patch of land for those who have passed to rest in.  

This is because according to Jewish tradition, Jews should be buried in a Jewish cemetery with their fellow Jews. More importantly, their corpse should be handled and their casket carried only by fellow Jews.

Jewish Cemetery

A Sacred Space


Creating a cemetery is usually one of the first undertakings of a newly established Jewish community. The land on which the cemetery is situated is made sacred and consecrated in a special ceremony when opened. Members of the community all work together in maintaining and funding the place. The Jews even have a burial society to help take care of the burial services with no payment needed whatsoever.

The tombstones also have a significant meaning in old Jewish traditions, as they are said to be a place for the soul of the dead to reside in. Although, as the years have passed, it has simply become a symbol of love and respect for the person.

The burial grounds should not be disturbed to show respect for the dead. Actions such as exhuming the body, ridiculing the deceased, or defacing the grave or tombstone are considered very serious and disrespectful offenses. 

Rules To Follow


Because they are considered hallowed grounds, there are several activities that are strictly forbidden in the cemetery. Visitors – especially those unfamiliar with Jewish customs—should heed these very well:

  • No visitations allowed on Shabbat and major Jewish holidays
  • Activities such as eating, drinking, or smoking are prohibited anywhere in the premises
  • Sitting and stepping on and over gravestones are not allowed
  • Visitors should dress appropriately and avoid wearing bold or revealing outfits

In general, it is advised that people should behave with proper decorum when visiting the Jewish cemetery. 

Give Respect To Where It’s Due


Whether your traveling with Jewish heritage tours or not, one should pay proper respects not only for the historical buildings and the local Jewish communities, but also for the deceased that have been buried there. Remember to keep a solemn attitude when entering their grounds.


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