Staying “In the Moment” Equals Good Manhood Care
Men looking for tips that can help them
take their sensual engagements to the next level often look for physical
activities to adopt. But not all sensual tips are about vibrators or positions
or sprays. Indeed, beyond keeping up with proper manhood care so the natural equipment functions at
its best, many sensual tips look more at the mental or emotional side of
coupling. And one strong recommendation is to find a way to stay more “in the
moment” when with a partner in bed.
Distractions
galore
Men
have a reputation for being single-minded when it comes to sensual activity.
The male reputation is that of a sensual machine, one that goes into action
once tumescence takes over and notices nothing beyond the physical sensations
emanating from his mid-section.
In
fact, many men find their sensual activity negatively impacted by distractions
that keep them from being fully “in the moment” during coupling. Sometimes
these distractions are minimal, sometimes more substantial. And their effect
can range from a blip on the sensual radar screen to a decrease in the
enjoyment of the activity to a physical inability to continue (or even get
started with) coupling.
So
what are some techniques a man might employ to stay more “in the moment” while
with a partner?
- Meditation. Sometimes to have a good time in bed, a guy needs to start
preparing in advance. Men who are easily distracted in bed could benefit from
practicing meditation on a regular basis. Meditation helps focus a person on
staying in the here and now. Although there can be some benefits to “immediate
meditation” – i.e., meditating for a few moments while the partner is getting
ready for bed – it is much more likely to have stronger benefits if practiced
on a daily basis instead.
There
are many classes available that teach meditation, as well as online videos and
apps.
- Be
prepared. Another way to be more “in the moment” is
to take time in advance to rid the romantic setting of likely distractions. A
clock that ticks too loudly, a phone that’s going to buzz whenever a text comes
in, lighting that’s too bright, sheets that come loose – all these issues can
be taken care of before the partner even arrives.
But
the romantic setting isn’t just physical; it’s mental, too. If something is
likely to be on the mind, try to eliminate it. If a guy is going to worry about
his dog getting into the garbage, bag it up and take it out before heading up
to the bedroom. If his mother always calls at a certain time, he can call her
that afternoon and let her know he won’t be home tonight.
- Tell
the story. For some men, they’re better able to be
“in the moment” if they tell the story of the moment in their head as they go
along. “She’s taking off her blouse while I am stepping out of my trousers. My
hands are cupping her chest. My manhood feels excited at her touch,” etc. For
many men, this can be a huge help.
Beyond
sensual tips that urge staying “in the moment,” men can also benefit from using
a superior male organ health
crème (health professionals
recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is
clinically proven mild and safe for skin) to
keep the manhood in proper shape. The ideal crème will include both L-arginine
and acetyl L carnitine, two important amino acids. L-arginine is crucial
because it plays a key role in the body’s ability to keep male organ blood
vessels open and receptive to increased blood flow. Acetyl L carnitine, on the
other hand, is a neuroprotective ingredient that especially comes in handy when
rough sensual activity threatens to cause damage to peripheral nerve cells,
thereby leading to a loss of sensation in the member.
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