Self-Pleasuring Control: Fighting the Urge
by John Dugan OwnerWhile
most men like to think that they are master of their domain, the fact is that
being able to control the urge for self-pleasuring can be challenging for many.
Of course, there’s usually no physical reason for needing to control the rate
of self-pleasuring; studies indicate that self-pleasuring is even healthy for a
guy. But most guys go through some period when they think they’d like to
control the urge for a while – a few weeks, a few days – sometimes even a few
hours. They may do so because they’re saving up seed for making a baby or
because they’re raw and tender or because they need to spend more time on that
big project for work. Whatever the reason, they may find it can be
surprisingly hard to keep the hands out of the danger zone.
So for those guys who are planning a vacation from self-elation
for a while, the following tips may come in handy (or non-handy, as the case
may be).
- Avoid the adult imagery. Okay, so this seems like a basic no-brainer. Staring at
pictures of beautiful people engaging in sensual frenzies is hardly the best
way to pull back on the self-pleasuring game. Dump any adult imagery which is
hanging around the house and avoid the temptation to just “take a quick peek”
at any new videos that have been added to a favorite adult site.
- Know the triggers. Every person has different triggers. A guy should take a few
moments to figure out his personal self-pleasuring triggers before trying to
control his self-fondling. Avoiding adult imagery is a common one, but what
others are unique to a specific man? Do certain fragrances cause excitement?
Does talking to a vivacious redhead at work make a guy feel like a quick
session in the men’s room? Make a list – and take steps to keep the triggers at
bay.
- Sleep later. A lot of guys wake up with morning wood and decide they’ve
got just enough time to take matters in their own hand. To avoid this
temptation, set the alarm clock for ten or twenty minutes later so that rushing
is necessary to avoid being late.
- Take cold showers. Not only does this help to dampen the self-sensual drive,
but it encourages a guy to get out of the shower quickly, rather than
luxuriating in it and finding time to self-gratify.
- Keep busy. Often self-pleasuring comes about due to boredom – so fill
the week with plenty of activities. And this can have the added bonus of
allowing a guy to spend time with old friends he hasn’t seen in a while or
actually see all those great movies he never has time for.
- Get hobbied. If it’s hard to fill the time, take up a new hobby (or
restart an old one).
- Have a lot of coupling. If a dude is in a relationship (or several, as the case may
be), he should take advantage of that fact during his self-pleasuring vacation.
The more coupling he has, the less likely he is to want to self-satisfy. Of
course, there are some men who find that they actually self-stimulate more when
in a sensual relationship – so for those men, find an excuse to avoid going to
bed with any partners for a while.
Not every guy needs to worry about whether they can control their
self-pleasuring, but all men do need to be sure to take steps to keep their
manhood in proper form. This can more easily be attained if a man regularly
uses a first rate manhood health
crème (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is
clinically proven mild and safe for skin). To find the best choice, look
for a crème that includes both a high-end emollient (such as Shea butter) and a
natural hydrator (such as vitamin E), so the member skin can be kept healthy.
Ideally, the crème should also include vitamin A, which possesses antibacterial
properties that can help fight persistent manhood odor, a major cause of
conflict in a relationship.
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