Relationships and Member Health: Is Affair Recovery Possible?
by John Dugan OwnerIn today’s world, many relationships fall victim to affairs. An
affair can wreak havoc on any relationship, whether it’s a relatively new one
or a marriage that has lasted for decades. Can anyone really recover from an
affair, and if so, how? And besides questions of the relationship lasting, men
also have to deal with questions of member health – all of which could damage
the relationship even further. Here’s what a man needs to know about relationship
care and male organ care in the wake of an affair.
So, somebody had an affair. What now?
What now, indeed. In the aftermath of an affair discovery, there
is bound to be some serious upheaval in a person’s life. And it is an
unfortunate fact that many partners will choose to call it quits shortly after
the affair is discovered, or after several months of soul-searching. But for
those who choose to stay and work things out, there are several things to keep
in mind.
1) Be dedicated to recovery. The affair happened because someone wasn’t fully dedicated to the
relationship they were in. In order to recover, both partners must be 100%
devoted to making their relationship work. This means doing whatever it takes
to recover from the affair, even if it feels “unfair” or too much to handle at
first.
2) Cut off all contact with the
other person. Any contact at all with the affair partner is a recipe for
trouble. This means that in order to ensure a strong relationship, the
offending partner must cut off all contact with the person they had the affair
with. Even if that means changing jobs or routines, it might be necessary for a
relationship to survive.
3) Get tested for everything. Both partners must go to the doctor for testing for all socially
shared infections – no exceptions. Even if the person who had the affair
trusted the ‘other person’ completely, getting tested is a good faith measure
for the partner who was wronged, as it gives them peace of mind that there is nothing
lurking there that might affect their health.
4) Become an open book. The time for secrets is over. Now is the time for openness and
complete transparency. What that means for each couple will be different. For
some, it means letting their partner know where they will be at all times. For
others, it means open access to passwords, email accounts and the like. What
openness looks like is up to the couple to agree upon.
5) Get into therapy. Sometimes it helps to have a professional voice guiding a couple
down the right path. Getting into therapy can help ensure that each person is
comfortable with the way the relationship is going and can keep everyone on
track if things get rocky along the way.
6) Ease back into the bedroom. Some couples can get right back into doing the deed. Others might
take many months before they are ready to play. No matter what the case, it’s
best to take it slow and easy, to make sure each person is fully ready to
commit to starting a sensual relationship again. Remember that this can hit at
the heart of many worries and fears, so be very patient when easing back into
sensual activity.
A man who wants to do his part in getting things going in the
bedroom again wants to make sure he has a handsome manhood to get the job done.
A good manhood health crème (health professionals recommend Man
1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can aid him in this quest. A crème
that contains a wealth of vitamins and nutrients, such as vitamin A for odor
control, vitamin E for softness and L-arginine for better blood flow, can help
ensure his body is good to go as soon as he and his partner are emotionally
ready.
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