How To Talk Sexual Health With Your New Lover - Is It Easy To Do?

by Martin Scott Mens Health Expert Talking things over between you two is a great way to kick off your new relationship. This is because everything between you is new and fresh. Communicating in a very special way with your partner is highly advised, as you don't want to promote any hurt feelings, or anything else that can put a strain on your new relationship with your lover.

Do it with lots of sensitivity, caring, and kid gloves
Sometimes, it is not an easy thing, when it comes to talking about sexual health with your new boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner. However, it is a talk that must happen, but you need to do it with lots of sensitivity and understanding to the person's needs as much as your own. Therefore, do deliver the talk with lots of caring and kid gloves. Don't make the other party feel like you are implying something negative about them or that you don't trust them.
 
Honesty is the best way to bring up sexual health testing with a partner
Honesty is indeed the best policy in any relationship. Nonetheless, a new relationship can prove to be difficult, when it comes to a talk of this very personal and private caliber. However, you do need to assure your boyfriend or girlfriend that this talk must commence for the good of you both sexually. Just do it with lots of respect and decency. The honesty part of it will happen on both sides, if both of you do open up about it easily, and because you do care for each other.

Don't ignore the issue due to the consequences that can happen
You should have the sexual health talk with your new boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner as soon as possible. If you should put it off, it is not a good thing, because if you come down with an STD or some other issue that you had no idea about beforehand. It can truly be something that will change your life for the worse in a number of ways. Two people who are in a new relationship with each other do need to know about the sexual health things about each other specifically. So, with this said, do ask him or her if there are any issues that you do need to know about like now.

Subtle type hints do help to initiate the talk about sexual health
Some subtle type hints can include leaving magazine or newspaper articles around that do pertain to sexual health and sexual health testing overall. You can also mention the name of a friend or just make up one that just had sexual health testing done and reveal what the results were. Raising concern about improving sexual health can be done. You just need to do it indirectly is all.

Don't take drastic measures unless you are absolutely forced to
Don't be prepared to do anything drastic unless you absolutely have to. Some drastic measures can be to not have sex with him or her until they have been sexually tested for any STDs and other sexual diseases. Getting drastic shouldn't have to something you have to resort to. However, you have a right to protect your general and sexual health. So, if you have to, more power to you.

Tell him or her that you worry about what could happen if the condom breaks
Another way to get your new love to get sexually tested is this. Tell him or her that you live in worry every day about the two of you having sex. You are afraid that the condom can break and you can catch something that you don't want to catch. The best way to handle the situation and to alleviate your fear of getting a sexual disease is for him or her to get sexually tested.

Talking about sexual health now is also talking about the future together
The reason for initiating sexual health talk between you and your new significant other is a given. It is also a necessity for you two to have a happy and very sexual life together. Therefore, do have this talk with your new lover, because it is a talk that does need to be done for the express purpose of protecting sexual health on both ends of the relationship from the get go.

Conclusion
When you approach the talk of sexual health with your partner. Be as open and honest as you can be about any existing issues that you do have from a sexual aspect. The truth is the truth, so choose to go this way, and tell your new lover everything that he or she does need to know about you from the onset. Honesty is the best policy from every angle including the sexual health one.

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