How To Improve Your Relationship

by Dillon Patterson Article Publisher

Man is a social animal and relationships are very important in his life. Among these relations are love, kinship, friendship, marriage etc. If we analyse human behaviour, then we will find that human beings are also connected with feelings and emotions. When a child is born from the mother's womb, it is directly related to the mother and the mother is also emotionally attached to her child. The father also becomes emotionally attached to his child. Parents leave no stone unturned to take care of their child. They give utmost importance to their children. The safety of the children and their needs are taken care of. When the child asks for toys, the parents provide him with toys.

When this child starts stepping into puberty, then he starts getting attracted towards the opposite sex and then he comes into a new relation. Young boys and girls make friends with each other and then move towards relationship. In many cases, such relationships also end quickly and the situation of lover-girlfriend separation sometimes becomes a reason for discord.

After this, when the boy and girl get married, they start a new life. Marriage is valid all over the world and it is approved by the society. Marriage is considered a sacred bond which rests on the trust, love and understanding of the husband and wife. When these things fall short in the relationship then marriages break up. The breakdown of marriage has a very bad effect on the children. Children are very emotional about the parent-child relationship. Children become victims of depression and sometimes even psychopaths. They get upset and sad seeing their parents fighting.

When a relationship deteriorates, it affects other people and society as well. A civilized society is said to be one where people have good relations with each other, respect each other's feelings, do not try to impose their point of view on others and even apologize when they make a mistake. Violence has no place in a civilized society. Everyone has the right to have his say and every problem is solved with goodwill. The problem is understood and then discussed. Going to the root of the problem and eliminating it. There is a way to protest in a civilized society. This protest is done in a civilized manner. If you don't agree with something, you can disagree with it. Your ideology should not be separatist, hater and phobia. If your ideology is like this then it can be alarm bell for a civilized society.

Marriage, the small unit of holding society together, should be saved from breaking down under any circumstances. Children are the most affected by the breakdown of a marriage. A woman loves her husband very much and wants to be with him but the husband wants divorce. In this matter, one has to talk intelligently with her husband and understand what is the problem and how to solve it. If the problem is understood in time, a house can be saved from breakdown. In these cases, family members should be talked to from both sides. Every effort should be made to resolve the matter. The husband can be explained that he understands the responsibility of his family.

The following things should be kept in mind to improve the relationship-

1. Husband and wife should talk openly among themselves, share their grievances.

2. Both explain to each other what will be the future of the children, what will be the effect on the mind of the children due to their separation

3. Try to improve the relationship by taking all the family members and apologize openly for your mistakes.

4. Give the relationship a chance to improve.

5. Sit down and find a solution to the problem.

6. A good counselor can be discussed in these matters. A home breakdown can be avoided if you do this. If the relationship problem is not resolved in spite of all kinds of talks, then it is better to separate legally by mutual consent.

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