Fighting in Your Relationships

Why is it so difficult to communicate, and why does the efforts to communicate so often end I fighting? Even though we think that a subject, a statement or an opinion is common or universal, we often find that the many things are not received as they were intended. Situations that are uncomfortable, scary and hurting can arise from nowhere. Often these situations throw us off and we stop communicating. We are left silent and try to get out of the awkward situation.

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The truth is that you most likely has passed on a statement that your listener put into a totally different content then you did. The result is misunderstanding and at worst case a real fight.

Hopefully this will give you a better day, and less fighting. There are different areas that will be important to look into. First the set of internal rules or guidelines here called values.

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Values consist of all the words you have heard or read that involves what we ought or ought not do. They are often not set into print, but rather exist as things we just know.

The major values are often carried by many people or large groups of people, like we can see in politics or religion. But for the individual person, other values can be just as important and carry a lot of emotional weight. And when they get violated or the person thinks they are about to get violated, they often react with emotions.