Choosing To Use A Donated Egg For Conception

by Robert F. Read My Articles, Learn More... For many women, the opportunity to use a donated egg in order to be able to conceive and bear a child is a dream come true. However, it’s also a complex decision which can be an emotional one and bring up concerns and questions. It’s best to approach the decision by way of a five step process to ensure one is making the right choice for herself, her family, and her child.

Step One: Don’t pressure yourself.

The frustration of infertility can make many women feel they need to rush their decisions. While egg donation is a wonder choice to make, it’s important to make the decision based on positive reasons, not out of anxiety or fear. It’s also important to take time in making this decision so that the woman and her partner can come to terms with some of the emotional and physical realities of egg donation. It’s okay for the couple to have conflicting feelings about having a child that’s genetically different; it is very important, however, to explore these feelings early on so that the process of using a donated egg can be a joyful one.

Step Two: Teamwork

For couples that are conceiving, the decision to use a donated egg should be one made together. They should discuss the various options that are available with one another, with their doctors, and perhaps with counselors as well to determine that it is the path they want to take. Planning a brief getaway to have these talks one on one with one’s spouse can be a good way to give each other full attention during this part of the process.

Step Three: What do you want from an egg donor?

While couples that are desperate to conceive may have come to the conclusion that having any child would be fine, it’s important to take the time think about what matters most in terms of appearance, genetic background, and other attributes which are affected by egg donation.

Step Four: Choose a donor

Find out what the options are at the facility you prefer. Some couples choose donors from their own families, but many opt for anonymous donors, or don’t wish to involve family or friends in the process.

Step Five: Your Support Network

Donating eggs in Colorado is a private and personal choice, as is receiving them. However, many couples find that having supportive, close friends and family aware of their choice is empowering. Be clear when telling family members and friends what your expectations are, if you prefer that they be discreet with the information, or if you are open to them sharing it with others. Be prepared for questions they might have about the process, or misconceptions they may have about it. The more clear and open you are about your expectations and the more willing you are to educate your support network, the better your family and friends will be able to support you during this exciting and sometimes overwhelming part of the process.

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