A Gentleman’s Guide to Planning the Perfect First Date

by sudipan mandal SEO

Asking out a woman who you like is undoubtedly a very intimidating thing. But if you’re ready to take the leap, then congratulations - you’ve had successfully crossed the first and by far the most difficult hurdle of dating. Now, she has also said yes and has agreed to go out with you, she liked something about you which made her say yes to exploring this connection. So, how do you plan the perfect date night? Here’s how.

1. The 4 p.m. deadline

As the day of the big date approaches, women often worry about the possibility that they might be stood up. Hence, the 4 p.m. deadline is an unofficial marge which confirms the date. It is a gentlemanly thing to do, just give her a call to confirm.

2. Choose a good location

The next tip is to choose a good location, preferably in the nearby perimeter so you can surpass the traffic. If you live in NCR, choose a romantic place in Delhi. Also, it is a mandate to reach your planning meeting place on time or even before time. In case, you’re picking her up from her place, make sure that you make an effort to observe proper car etiquette like getting out of the car to greet her and opening the car door for her.

3. Dress the part

This is the most important tip - dressing the part. It is human nature to judge on appearance, and your date is sure to do this and I say, rightfully so. I would suggest that you don’t look like a slob and be presentable enough. Don’t forget to hone a positive attitude with a smile.

4. Pay attention to her

Women spend a lot of time in dressing up to look beautiful and wonder if you men notice. So, make sure that you appreciate her efforts. Not to forget, women love being told that they’re beautiful but in the most genuine way.

5. Walk her to the door

This is the most gentlemanly thing to do, but then it’s a scary world and she would want to feel protected - also by you. If she invited you in as a polite gesture, this means that she trusts you with her safety. This doesn’t always have to mean any expectations, just go with the flow.