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6 Reasons Why it is Time to Move in With Your Partner

by Regina Thomas Freelance Writer

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Moving in with your partner is undeniably a big step in any relationship. Before you begin this process, it is important that you have thought through all of the implications so that you can be confident that you are ready to embark on this new season in life. Here are six reasons why it is time to make the move with your partner.

On the Same Page Financially

It is important that you are not moving in together just for the financial implications. While it may be tempting to share a home together because it saves you both money, this is not a good enough reason to take this step.

Instead, you want to take the time to sit down and work out your joint budgeting and make sure that you are both on the same page. Do not assume that you will get there once it is a necessity to agree on finances. If you are able to come to a budgeting agreement prior to moving in, it is a good sign that you are both ready for this transition.

Enjoyed Vacations Together

If you have spent a significant amount of time traveling together and emerged with little issues, this is a good reason to make the move permanent. Enjoying time together without experiencing problems will give you peace of mind that you can cohabitate with ease.

Vacations together are great trial runs to see if you are ready to take this leap of faith. Before you sign on the dotted line, be sure to practice living together to see what type of problems crop up so that you have a plan to deal with it.

You Have Looked at Homes Together

If you find yourself looking at homes with your partner, it is a sign that both of you are ready to dive into co-habitation. It is great fun to look at new homes for sale in Edmonton, for instance, to see what appeals to your taste.

Once you have agreed on a housing style and size, you can begin making plans for your future. Your budget and personal tastes will largely dictate the type of home that you settle on. Be sure to explore a wide variety of floor plans so that you can land on the best fit for your particular lifestyle as a couple.

Ready to Make a Long-term Commitment

Another good reason to make this leap is if both of you are ready for a long-term commitment. Once you have decided that you are in this relationship for the long haul, it is time to start planning your future together.

An integral part of this future is where you live. Moving in together will signify that the relationship is solid and that you are committed to building a life together.

You Are Able to Work Through Conflicts

One sign of a healthy relationship is the ability to work through conflicts together. Once you are in each other's space all of the time, you are going to need to have an arsenal of tools at the ready to work through issues. Having already confronted these issues and successfully dealt with them in the past is a good reason to make the move.

On the flip side, if the same issues keep coming up over and over again, you are going to need to find solutions to these problems before moving in together. Failure to do so could spell doom for your relationship.

Trust in Your Partner

The most important element in any relationship is trust. If you have full trust in your partner, it is a good sign that you are ready to cohabitate.

You can feel good about your decision to move in together if you have no secrets in your relationship. This includes having open communication about finances, past relationships, and familial matters. Knowing that this trust goes both ways will give you both confidence to begin looking for your new place together.

These six reasons will help you to justify that you are ready to make this commitment. Now is a great time to get on with the rest of your life as you build a home together.



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