3 Steps To Becoming Totally Fearless After Divorce

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You may have had big, fearless plans for yourself after divorce.

If you still feel stuck, longing for the confidence to make some big changes in your post-divorce life, keep reading! Becoming Fearless After Divorce These three simple tips will get you feeling fearless and ready to take on the world after divorce, no matter how much you aren't trusting yourself right now.

Method #1: Reflect on what is the BEST thing that will happen when I do this? Ever notice how when you think about doing something new and bold after divorce, something stops you? The moment you start thinking about taking bold action, that inner voice-whether it's your own insecurity, the sound of your ex-husband, or even your annoyingly practical family-gets louder and louder: Are you out of your mind? What if you get kidnapped? It's soooooo annoying when your inner voice shoots down your fearless idea.

Replace "What's the worst thing that could happen?" with "What's the best thing that can happen?" I got a lot of crap after divorce when I quit my stressful male-dominated job in defense to go travel through Asia and Russia for four months.

Small fearless changes after divorce don't happen in a day.

It's hard to break out of the habits that keep you stuck after divorce.

Having someone hold you accountable as you become fearless after divorce will keep you from losing your momentum.